Hello all, apologies for not posting update sooner can't believe how quick the past week has gone. One week post op and all seems to be going ok, been out for a couple of short walks and not as exhausted. Next hurdle is tomorrow when hopefully catheter will be removed have the tena supplies at the ready. As you all said it has changed us but we are getting there and have had a few giggles with the trials of the catheter and topics of discussion e.g. bowel movement who says romance is dead. Ben back at sixth form today so looking to sort out present list for his 18th. Saw my Dr yesterday still on meds but said it's ok for there to be bad and good days and I'm not to be too hard myself for feeling how I do and trying to do much. Anyway off to make a cuppa thanks again for being there. Will let you know how tomorrow goes.