Forgot to mention, we had a family gathering, my wife, two sons and daughter, we discussed my situation and I impressed on the boys the importance of early monitoring,
Even though they are 37, 35 I told them it's never to early for a blood test. The younger is a medic in the army and he returned to barracks, told his MO and straight away PSA test and he's fine and will undergo future tests. I will have to get on the case of my elder son via his wife.
Also need to lean on my daughter's husband