Wow, you are a much bigger man than I perhaps expected and you have all my respect. I am sorry that I contributed to your horrible week - I said at some training today that last Friday should be officially deleted from the calendar as there were apparently friends, colleagues etc all at odds with each other.
I did try to post on your other thread about your stats but then realised it had been locked. If it is any reassurance, I don't think they are moving particularly fast although I can see why it would feel like a whirlwind to you. Based on your previous post I think your MRI will be about 3 weeks after the biopsy? The guidance is that the MRI should be at least 2 weeks after biopsy to let any bruising settle but it doesn't always happen that way. Some have their MRI before the biopsy! Appointment a week later with the results isn't odd either - it sounds to me like an efficient department rather than an indication of the seriousness of your diagnosis.
This is all very new to you and things will settle down - you will find your new normal. John and I dance and it has been our sanity - you will get your playing fingers back on soon enough I hope
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And that's a welcome from me to Dave it is strange how the P word divides us but the C word unites us. . Keep posting we are all here to help you through the journey with advise, a shoulder to cry on and as you say sometimes just writing your thought down can be very therapeutic.
Thank you for reposting I must confess to having a few sleepless nights worrying about you.
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Glad that went well,
Lots of men feel the same way as you about the op, but lots of others choose RT as the less invasive option.
I couldn't even begin to imagine how I would choose if I were a Man so I hope you can get all the guidance and help you need to make a decision you are happy with. Once you make it there should be no going back.
I understand your thoughts about the use of a prostate post snip, kids etc. However some men do find dry orgasms a bit weird. If I am honest, as a woman I find the thought of that something of a bonus. I don't think losing other items can quite compare, your appendix yes a relatively useless thing, but your nipples mmmm not so sure Sean Conery has very attractive nipples for a Man?
how shocking, I am usually a very conservative poster!
must be the 3 glasses of prosecco!
Best wishes for Wednesday
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Very courageous post Dave.
I think most on here will respect you for that.
Hope the MRI goes OK and good luck for your future treatment.
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Dave,
It takes courage to write what you have posted and I admire you for that. Having a dx of Pca is a horrible position to be in and I understand how you must feel about what may lay ahead for you.
We are all here to help, advise and support each other.
Best wishes,
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As said by others, a brave post.
We all have bad days and sometimes bad weeks, I am sure no one will bear a grudge.
Thanks Chris
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Dave, you're a bigger man than me gungadin well done for the well written post..
It goes to show that no one knows what is going on behind the mask. By this I also mean those ordinary people that we know that do not really understand what we are going through, the turmoil of diagnosis and treatment, getting our heads around what we are feeling about the way it is affecting us and our family and friends. Those people that look at you and think that nothing shows so you must be OK, they do not see the mental anguish or the physical side effects of all the different treatments.
If you had lost a leg they would be understanding or if you are wrapped in bandages then they can see that there is a problem but "looking normal" they are blissfully unaware.
Likewise last week we all read and responded purely on the face value of what was before us, could also have been sour grapes because of the politics of the day, who knows but never the less welcome back and I am sure you will become part of the fixtures and fittings of the site before you know it.
Best wishes with your appointments, regards Chris/Woody
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Some MRI suites have headphones and music , some don't. Often they have headphones so they can tell you what is happening and for how long. A scan can last up to 40 mins. Even with music I'm afraid your concerto ain't going to be that relaxing. It's all noise and varying tempo. I can always sense the power in an MRI scanner. Like an aura almost. They use liquid Helium as a refrigerant to keep them cool. This is a limited element on our planet , so we shouldn't really be using it for balloons haha. Bah humbug.
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Hi Glen
Can'take help with what the items might be as I didn't have to take anything but I just wanted to wish you well with your op. It is just over a year since mine and it seems like a lifetime away now. Just be kind to yourself after as I am sure recovery is quicker if you remain active but don't overdo it.
All the best.
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Good luck with your op tomorrow, you will be in safe hands Glen
Just take it slow and easy after surgery
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Good Luck tomorrow Glen.
It's a new month and you'll start a new stage of your life.
Wishing you all the best
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Good luck for tomorrow...
and as others have said - take it easy afterwards.
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Best wishes for tomorrow,the only thing that springs to mind are laxatives or antibiotics ,but my antibiotics were given intravenously by the anaesthetist. Anaesthetic and tablets ect can make you constipated so remember no straining to pass that first motion post op. Take it easy but keep mobile.
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Hope all goes well tomorrow, take care. Jayne
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Very very best wishes.
You'll be fine.
Do NOTHING for 8 weeks. And I mean NOTHING. Let yourself heal. It's a bigger op than you think.
My fingers crossed
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Hi nice people and now it really is over, thank goodness!
Well, I'm home again. To be honest, it wasn't too traumatic. Walked down to theatre and laid down on the couch and the anesthetist said that I would get some oxygen and then a big injection to put me to sleep. Took a few deep breaths and went out like a light. Funny oxygen, lol. Next thing I knew I was in recovery in some sort of "dreamworld". I vaguely remember some of the trip up to the ward and then not much after that till they woke me for blood pressure etc.
Had a bit of local pain around the "funny bits". Got about two hours sleep that night; one heavy snorer, one heavy breather and one guy who was having a loud conversation with someone all bloody night, lol.
Had an "accident" last night in bed but once I'd got the bags in the right place, all was fine. Dreamt that I'd stolen a helicopter!!
A bit "leaky" at times and some blood in my urine from getting up and sitting down again when any pressure is put on the catheter, but ok if I don't move around too much. Apparently it's called bladder spasm as the bladder doesn't take too kindly to having a plastic tube stuck into it.
Luckily I have one of those reclining sofas so I can adjust it a bit like the hospital bed for the best position. My daughter has come down for a few days to be a "nurse" with the missus, lol.
Not in any pain at all at the moment.
If anyone waiting for the op needs some first hand experience of the op, then please contact me; I'll be more than happy to share.
Thank you ALL very much for your support; it made the time leading up to the op much easier for me.
I wonder if I can get some sexy 23 year old blonde "bimbo" to help me test out my ED in the weeks to come?? Just kidding, Lol.
Take care my friends and I will keep posting.
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Great news Glen,
Glad to hear all went well, take it easy and enjoy being looked after.
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Glad that really is over for you Glen. Now spend the recovery time wisely and rest. Don't even THINK about sexy 23 year old bimbos or it will excite you too much and put your recovery back.
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Good to hear that it went well.
Take your time in doing things and let your body recover fully before you tackle anything strenuous... including young bimbos!
I was told before discharge that the heaviest thing that I should lift for 6 weeks was a kettle full of water!
It was good advice ... and my excuse for doing nothing for 6 weeks.
Take care...
KRO...
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Glad that the op went well and that you are feeling good. Hope the recovery stages will be OK for you but take it a step at a time and don't overdo it.
You can relax and chill for a bit.
All the best
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Good to hear things went well. I was given oxybutynin for bladder spasms. Don't spend all day in that reclining sofa, keep active but no marathons.
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Hi Glen
Glad you are ok and well done mate. Sounds like you are doing well.
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Sounds like everything is going well so far, it truly is important to rest and not to tackle anything more than a crossword puzzle, game of scrabble, reading the paper, watching telly or even dreaming of stealing helicopters!
Just becuase you are not in pain and everything seems fine you must remember the surgery snipped and took away, snipped and reconnected all sorts of bits I never knew men even had and even a robot has a good old prod around whilst in there! All these things take about 4 - 6 weeks to heal sufficiently to do anything much more.
No harm in day dreaming or wishing though ha ha
Best wishes for a complete and speedy recovery
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That brings back memories of being 4 days post op , paramedics, 30 mg of morphine and my first trip in an ambulance. Mine was all down to constipation and like you never experienced pain like that before. My experience post op was as the days went on the debris and clots became more frequent and the bypassing became more frequent. Were you given any advice on how to deal with blockages and bypassing ?
Sounds like your bag may not have been pushed into the catheter enough. When I shower I let the bag hang from the catheter and it has never come disconnected.
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Hi Glen,
Aah surprise returns to hospital! All part off your new life's rich pattern.
Your first attempt at escape lasted longer than my first attempt. I was back in in 4 hours with a leaking like a sieve catheter. Some of the longer standing members here may recall my blog account of watering the flowers and cable ties.
Don't rush anything, your body will do what it needs to do, as and when it is ready and willing to do it.
But I do suggest you exercise, gently at first then more vigorously.
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All the best Glen.
I tended to drink a fair bit of extra water. To keep the whole system flowing. Not sure if it made much difference. I had no med's or pain after about couple days other than a massive bladder spasm about 30 seconds after emptying. This was weeks later. I was returning from a walk and the bladder was reaching its capacity I think. The pain dissipated slowly after 3 or 4 minutes. Encruciating. Never was told this could happen. I find I have a much better flow and only need to go 4 or 5 times per day. Nothing at night. Unless I have a cider or 2 late evening or caffeine. I probably treat my bladder much more kindly now.... lol... all the best
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Update folks:
Back into hospital today to have the catheter removed and to test the plumbing. All OK so am home now. District nurse coming tomorrow to take out staples.
A bit of leakage when standing up and sitting down again but that seems to be getting better by the hour.
All in all, it hasn't been too bad. Had a bit of a temperature for a day or two but the paracetamol seems to have fixed that. No more bladder spasms, thank goodness, but I did take a couple of Oxybutynin tablets when I thought one might be on the way.
So, next is PSA test in about four weeks then post op chat with the consultant a couple of weeks later to see if all the cancerous cells have gone and where we go from there.
So from now on it is onwards and upwards.
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Well done - so pleased that things are going well but don't be tempted to overdo things because you are feeling well. Great news!
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Hi Glen
Things should start feeling more normal now. Hopefully you get through night dry. I only had issues. Excuse the pun. when standing up quickly. I tended to try steadily to hold on a little more and it seemed to work. Obviously the bladder has more room and sits differently. All the bundles of nerves have to 're-sync'.
May I ask. What staples...? I just had superglue material. In fact no one ever looked at my wounds.
One weeped clear fluid one night. Loads .. It wet the bed. All healed very well and apart from the larger central one practically invisible. I kept them dry as much as I could. Did you get given Fragmin ??
All the best.
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Morning Glen,
Excellent news for you regarding a dry night, you are very fortunate.
I hope all else goes well, but take care not to overdo anything even though you may feel outwardly fine.
Have a great weekend.
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Just an update.
It is now two weeks since I had my catheter out. Things are going really well as not only am I totally dry every night, but I am also 98% dry during the day, the pads are dry all the time and they have hardly any colour change. I do have to be careful though to ensure I tense before I move suddenly. Moving slowly seems to be the key.
Now, Pelvic Floor Exercises . . . . do they work or not? I know there has been quite a lot of debate about it with some saying that it helps and others saying it is a waste of time. So let me give you my take on it.
I started doing PFEs six weeks before my op. I already knew how to do them because a few years ago, I suffered with back pain; I took up Pilates and within a month my back pain was gone. Now, the first thing you are taught when stating Pilates is how to do a "zip and hold". This is basically a pelvic floor "pull up" and the theory is that if you have a strong body "core" then the rest of the body tends to work much better.
Since I had my catheter out, I have been doing eight sets of ten PFEs every day without fail. I have an app on my phone which reminds me to do them.
Now, I don't know if it's the result of doing the PFEs which has enabled me to progress so quickly or if it's perhaps that I've been lucky. However, I believe that we make our own luck and therefore I shall carry on doing them until I am 100% dry.
So, my advice to anyone who has had or is going to have a radical prostatectomy, START DOING PELVIC FLOOR EXERCISES NOW! You've nothing to lose but an awful lot to gain.
Glen
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Really sorry to read that you are struggling Glen,
Pleased that you felt able to come back.
You will get the best possible help and support from all of us here.
Most importantly remember you are not alone.
At any time of day or night you can post here, and someone will be along to reply.
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PS: brave post, respect for that.
PPS: Is your user name Dave or Glen, how do we address you?
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Thanks for you reply. Real name Dave, Glendower is my screen name.
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Very courageous post Dave.
I think most on here will respect you for that.
Hope the MRI goes OK and good luck for your future treatment.
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Dave,
It takes courage to write what you have posted and I admire you for that. Having a dx of Pca is a horrible position to be in and I understand how you must feel about what may lay ahead for you.
We are all here to help, advise and support each other.
Best wishes,
John
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As said by others, a brave post.
We all have bad days and sometimes bad weeks, I am sure no one will bear a grudge.
Thanks Chris
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Hi Glen sorry your struggling , think we all get those dark days I have had them, but have come through the feeling sorry for myself and am fortunate to have good support on this site and at home ,so your not alone as you have found this group, rant all you want, better to let it out than bottle it up.. all the best Andy
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Which if us hasn't lashed out when we are suffering.
I read the previous posts but didn't get involved as it seemed to me that your reaction was so sharp it was more than about being pulled up short for bringing politics into it. We all have things going on in the background that the rest of us know nothing about and perhaps it is easier to judge others by their responses. Anyway, it's done with and you're back and it's good that you feel able to return.
It's a shame that a good friend has "dumped" you for no apparent reason, but much like your own case where we didn't know why you were reacting as you did, maybe she also has things going on in her life that you know nothing about and that she doesn't feel able to share it with you. Something personal maybe. Perhaps she feels that you have enough going on in your life with your own problems and she can't dump hers on you too.
Whatever her reasons please give her the benefit of the doubt.
Mood swings when you've been diagnosed with cancer is quite understandable. Everything goes through your mind with nothing much being resolved.
Maybe the hospital has found that it's best to deal with your quickly (in which case - well done them!) or it might just be that they are generally efficient and had space on the lists to fit you in.
Don't trouble trouble until trouble troubles you !!!
You're back, welcome home!
Rant about your life if it helps. We all feel like it sometimes
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Dave
I am so pleased that you have posted again. Not surprised you were in a really dark place the other day the worry of all this and being cold shouldered by a friend is enough to set the strongest person reeling. As it was a female friend that would also explain your temporary attitude to the sometimes not so fairer sex!
As Sandra says who knows what inner turmoil she may have been going through as well. Just a thought?
Now let's start anew your rant forgotten and all of us trying to be what we are normally, a great bunch of caring people.
If you need to ask anything about your scans or tests or what results might mean you go right ahead.
Have you got someone who can go with you to appointments if you feel that company will help? Sometimes it does help to have another person with you to take down notes so you can check back on conversations later.
Some men prefer to go alone but ask the consultants if they can record the conversations.
In any event I wish you all the best.
Your apologetic post is most appreciatively accepted.
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Wow, you are a much bigger man than I perhaps expected and you have all my respect. I am sorry that I contributed to your horrible week - I said at some training today that last Friday should be officially deleted from the calendar as there were apparently friends, colleagues etc all at odds with each other.
I did try to post on your other thread about your stats but then realised it had been locked. If it is any reassurance, I don't think they are moving particularly fast although I can see why it would feel like a whirlwind to you. Based on your previous post I think your MRI will be about 3 weeks after the biopsy? The guidance is that the MRI should be at least 2 weeks after biopsy to let any bruising settle but it doesn't always happen that way. Some have their MRI before the biopsy! Appointment a week later with the results isn't odd either - it sounds to me like an efficient department rather than an indication of the seriousness of your diagnosis.
This is all very new to you and things will settle down - you will find your new normal. John and I dance and it has been our sanity - you will get your playing fingers back on soon enough I hope
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And that's a welcome from me to Dave it is strange how the P word divides us but the C word unites us. . Keep posting we are all here to help you through the journey with advise, a shoulder to cry on and as you say sometimes just writing your thought down can be very therapeutic.
Thank you for reposting I must confess to having a few sleepless nights worrying about you.
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Dave, you're a bigger man than me gungadin well done for the well written post..
It goes to show that no one knows what is going on behind the mask. By this I also mean those ordinary people that we know that do not really understand what we are going through, the turmoil of diagnosis and treatment, getting our heads around what we are feeling about the way it is affecting us and our family and friends. Those people that look at you and think that nothing shows so you must be OK, they do not see the mental anguish or the physical side effects of all the different treatments.
If you had lost a leg they would be understanding or if you are wrapped in bandages then they can see that there is a problem but "looking normal" they are blissfully unaware.
Likewise last week we all read and responded purely on the face value of what was before us, could also have been sour grapes because of the politics of the day, who knows but never the less welcome back and I am sure you will become part of the fixtures and fittings of the site before you know it.
Best wishes with your appointments, regards Chris/Woody
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MRI on Friday Dave,
Hope it goes well for you? Don't know how long yours will take, mine was 45 minutes. Thorough!
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Thank you all for your kind words and your welcome back.
I will post again once I've had my meeting with the Radiologist and Oncologist (have I got that right?) next week. You know, one "fries" it from the outside and the other just takes the bloody thing out!
One thing that doesn't bother me; I had "the snip" 37 years ago; two kids is quite enough, thank you very much, lol.
Be good, all you nice people
Glen
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I think they both fry it!
The Urologist (Surgeon) would take it out?
Take care
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You will be getting the snip again - at least this time you will know what to expect
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Oh right, thanks for that, I wouldn't want the wrong person doing it, lol.
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Oh, that's fine then if it's just a little snip, lol.
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So, MRI tomorrow and I know it doesn't hurt, lol. Been told that I can take a CD to listen to over their system with their headphones. It just HAS to be Rachmaninov's 3rd Piano Concerto, my favourite of all time.
BTW, I've only just noticed the chatroom; does anyone ever go in there?
Have a good weekend folks!
Glen
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Some MRI suites have headphones and music , some don't. Often they have headphones so they can tell you what is happening and for how long. A scan can last up to 40 mins. Even with music I'm afraid your concerto ain't going to be that relaxing. It's all noise and varying tempo. I can always sense the power in an MRI scanner. Like an aura almost. They use liquid Helium as a refrigerant to keep them cool. This is a limited element on our planet , so we shouldn't really be using it for balloons haha. Bah humbug.
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Hope the MRI goes well today.
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Cheers! You never know; I might end up with a magnetic personality or start attracting forks, spoons and bloody robots, lol.
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Hope all goes well, our local MRI suite does not have music and the operator was a miserable so*, mind you I was first of the day at 7 am a few days before xmas.
Think positive.
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Well, that was interesting. Lovely people and very reassuring. A bit like going to Alton Towers but without having to pay, lol.
They said they got some very clear images so it's now a wait till Weds to see the results. From the amount I've gleaned on the web and on here in particular, they are going to have to "talk me out" of having the prostatectomy as the only other alternative for me is the radiotherapy and I just don't fancy all the hormone treatment for six months. Also, as I've had the snip I'm thinking of it rather as an appendix or nipples, lol in my case totally useless so may as well get rid.
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Glad that went well,
Lots of men feel the same way as you about the op, but lots of others choose RT as the less invasive option.
I couldn't even begin to imagine how I would choose if I were a Man so I hope you can get all the guidance and help you need to make a decision you are happy with. Once you make it there should be no going back.
I understand your thoughts about the use of a prostate post snip, kids etc. However some men do find dry orgasms a bit weird. If I am honest, as a woman I find the thought of that something of a bonus. I don't think losing other items can quite compare, your appendix yes a relatively useless thing, but your nipples mmmm not so sure Sean Conery has very attractive nipples for a Man?
how shocking, I am usually a very conservative poster!
must be the 3 glasses of prosecco!
Best wishes for Wednesday
Mo
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Update: I have had the date for my assessment . . . . right in the middle of our annual holiday which I can't cancel! So, it's now been put back to Aug 18th which probably means that the actual op will be early Sept (seems that the op is usually about three weeks after the assessment. It's only a delay of two weeks.
So, hopefully it will all go well and be smooth sailing from here.
Glen
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So, nearly there; op is tomorrow with admission at 7am.
Have to go to the hospital today to "collect a prescription for the items you will need before you come to hospital for your surgery". Any have any idea what that is for?
Anyway, will keep you all posted as to how things go.
Glen
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Hi Glen
Can'take help with what the items might be as I didn't have to take anything but I just wanted to wish you well with your op. It is just over a year since mine and it seems like a lifetime away now. Just be kind to yourself after as I am sure recovery is quicker if you remain active but don't overdo it.
All the best.
Kevan
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Good luck with your op tomorrow, you will be in safe hands Glen
Just take it slow and easy after surgery
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Good Luck tomorrow Glen.
It's a new month and you'll start a new stage of your life.
Wishing you all the best
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Good luck for tomorrow...
and as others have said - take it easy afterwards.
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Best wishes for tomorrow,the only thing that springs to mind are laxatives or antibiotics ,but my antibiotics were given intravenously by the anaesthetist. Anaesthetic and tablets ect can make you constipated so remember no straining to pass that first motion post op. Take it easy but keep mobile.
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Hope all goes well tomorrow, take care. Jayne
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Very very best wishes.
You'll be fine.
Do NOTHING for 8 weeks. And I mean NOTHING. Let yourself heal. It's a bigger op than you think.
My fingers crossed
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Hi nice people and now it really is over, thank goodness!
Well, I'm home again. To be honest, it wasn't too traumatic. Walked down to theatre and laid down on the couch and the anesthetist said that I would get some oxygen and then a big injection to put me to sleep. Took a few deep breaths and went out like a light. Funny oxygen, lol. Next thing I knew I was in recovery in some sort of "dreamworld". I vaguely remember some of the trip up to the ward and then not much after that till they woke me for blood pressure etc.
Had a bit of local pain around the "funny bits". Got about two hours sleep that night; one heavy snorer, one heavy breather and one guy who was having a loud conversation with someone all bloody night, lol.
Had an "accident" last night in bed but once I'd got the bags in the right place, all was fine. Dreamt that I'd stolen a helicopter!!
A bit "leaky" at times and some blood in my urine from getting up and sitting down again when any pressure is put on the catheter, but ok if I don't move around too much. Apparently it's called bladder spasm as the bladder doesn't take too kindly to having a plastic tube stuck into it.
Luckily I have one of those reclining sofas so I can adjust it a bit like the hospital bed for the best position. My daughter has come down for a few days to be a "nurse" with the missus, lol.
Not in any pain at all at the moment.
If anyone waiting for the op needs some first hand experience of the op, then please contact me; I'll be more than happy to share.
Thank you ALL very much for your support; it made the time leading up to the op much easier for me.
I wonder if I can get some sexy 23 year old blonde "bimbo" to help me test out my ED in the weeks to come?? Just kidding, Lol.
Take care my friends and I will keep posting.
Glen
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Great news Glen,
Glad to hear all went well, take it easy and enjoy being looked after.
Lynda
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Glad that really is over for you Glen. Now spend the recovery time wisely and rest. Don't even THINK about sexy 23 year old bimbos or it will excite you too much and put your recovery back.
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Good to hear that it went well.
Take your time in doing things and let your body recover fully before you tackle anything strenuous... including young bimbos!
I was told before discharge that the heaviest thing that I should lift for 6 weeks was a kettle full of water!
It was good advice ... and my excuse for doing nothing for 6 weeks.
Take care...
KRO...
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Glad that the op went well and that you are feeling good. Hope the recovery stages will be OK for you but take it a step at a time and don't overdo it.
You can relax and chill for a bit.
All the best
Kevan
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Good to hear things went well. I was given oxybutynin for bladder spasms. Don't spend all day in that reclining sofa, keep active but no marathons.
Thanks Chris
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Hi Glen
Glad you are ok and well done mate. Sounds like you are doing well.
Chris
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Sounds like everything is going well so far, it truly is important to rest and not to tackle anything more than a crossword puzzle, game of scrabble, reading the paper, watching telly or even dreaming of stealing helicopters!
Just becuase you are not in pain and everything seems fine you must remember the surgery snipped and took away, snipped and reconnected all sorts of bits I never knew men even had and even a robot has a good old prod around whilst in there! All these things take about 4 - 6 weeks to heal sufficiently to do anything much more.
No harm in day dreaming or wishing though ha ha
Best wishes for a complete and speedy recovery
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Mo
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Update:
Had to go back to hospital this morning; catheter stopped draining and I was in a bit of pain and bleeding a bit.
Got to the hospital and while I was there, had severe bladder spasms; never felt pain like that in my life. Had my whole system flushed through with saline and given anti spasm tablet. Was also given a suppository as I hadn't had a poo for five days and felt quite "pregnant". Together they worked fine and now I am back on the road to recovery. Have a supply of tablets just in case.
Had a problem when I sat down and the top strap securing my bag loosened so it put strain on the tube and I ended up a little "wet", lol.
All is good now and am enjoying a glass of wine. Will need to get up more and do walking several times a day rather than just reclining on the sofa and watching telly. A very steep learning curve!
Oh well, it's better than being dead! Lol.
Glen
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That brings back memories of being 4 days post op , paramedics, 30 mg of morphine and my first trip in an ambulance. Mine was all down to constipation and like you never experienced pain like that before. My experience post op was as the days went on the debris and clots became more frequent and the bypassing became more frequent. Were you given any advice on how to deal with blockages and bypassing ?
Sounds like your bag may not have been pushed into the catheter enough. When I shower I let the bag hang from the catheter and it has never come disconnected.
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Hi Glen,
Aah surprise returns to hospital! All part off your new life's rich pattern.
Your first attempt at escape lasted longer than my first attempt. I was back in in 4 hours with a leaking like a sieve catheter. Some of the longer standing members here may recall my blog account of watering the flowers and cable ties.
Don't rush anything, your body will do what it needs to do, as and when it is ready and willing to do it.
But I do suggest you exercise, gently at first then more vigorously.
atb
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All the best Glen.
I tended to drink a fair bit of extra water. To keep the whole system flowing. Not sure if it made much difference. I had no med's or pain after about couple days other than a massive bladder spasm about 30 seconds after emptying. This was weeks later. I was returning from a walk and the bladder was reaching its capacity I think. The pain dissipated slowly after 3 or 4 minutes. Encruciating. Never was told this could happen. I find I have a much better flow and only need to go 4 or 5 times per day. Nothing at night. Unless I have a cider or 2 late evening or caffeine. I probably treat my bladder much more kindly now.... lol... all the best
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Update folks:
Back into hospital today to have the catheter removed and to test the plumbing. All OK so am home now. District nurse coming tomorrow to take out staples.
A bit of leakage when standing up and sitting down again but that seems to be getting better by the hour.
All in all, it hasn't been too bad. Had a bit of a temperature for a day or two but the paracetamol seems to have fixed that. No more bladder spasms, thank goodness, but I did take a couple of Oxybutynin tablets when I thought one might be on the way.
So, next is PSA test in about four weeks then post op chat with the consultant a couple of weeks later to see if all the cancerous cells have gone and where we go from there.
So from now on it is onwards and upwards.
Glen
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Well done - so pleased that things are going well but don't be tempted to overdo things because you are feeling well. Great news!