Our hearts go out to you at this terrible time. We are so very sorry to hear about Eric.
Words aren't enough to convey our heartfelt sympathy.
I read your first lines at the top of this post earlier, and was struggling to know what to say, and now I've read all the other details, I am shocked to the core.
Yes, this is wrong, very wrong.
My wife and I can't imagine how you must have felt today.
Love and a big big hug from us both,
George and Lynn