Thinking of you all cookiegirl and wishing i had a magic wand
Frustrating for you all, not knowing what is happening and there isn't anything you can do except be there should he change his mind and want to talk to you all but also to be there for your mum.
It's understandable that your dad has had enough. All you can do is respect his wishes.
Try and stay strong for your mum, who needs you more than ever now