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Posted 31 Oct 2014 at 23:17

Well Bonnie Blueberry,

Know I know it's you I have two things to say, firstly WELCOME and secondly how is that gorgeous dog. http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/editors/tiny_mce/plugins/emoticons/img/smiley-smile.gif Congratulations on your job your Dad would be so proud.

BFN

Julie X

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Posted 04 Nov 2014 at 07:04

Hi everyone,

I see a few of you have now guessed who I am, I didn't need to keep myself anonymous because I am very proud of who I am and where I have come from, however I started this while Mo was away and I didn't want to encroach on any of her posts we have since talked after she got home and both our posts are the same story but from different angles, her as a wife and myself as a daughter. I also noticed on the site that there are not many (or I haven't found them yet) stories from my view. Its strange because I write my posts and it gives me a very positive feeling.

Anyway I have been very busy since my last post, I spent a few days with lovely Mo some tears and laughter, fizz to celebrate my job and girly shopping day. We also sorted some more of dads things in the loft, well I say sorted we got rid of the 40 odd empty boxes to we can see whats up there. Why he kept this stuff because he said there is a use for everything ha ha that's how dad was. The funniest bit was when I bought down a kettle box, mo said to me that was from the old house so this means dad would have moved an empty box!!!!!!!

Yesterday was my first day at my new job I got everything ready the night before ( hearing dads voice saying prior planning etc) arriving at oxford in plenty of time phew !! It was a strange day lots of bits and pieces my new manager is lovely however mad as a box of frogs bless her. WE went through all the bits of paperwork and i bought home a pile of work so big i could hardly carry it, im thinking im gonna need a bigger bag here. Anyway I left at 3pm to miss traffic and do some work at home. I felt a bit naughty leaving early (sneaking past the area managers office) but that's how it works now managing my own time.

Today I am off to the houses I will be managing to meet the staff and service users i think alot more will make sense today. I am looking forward to meeting with everyone. 

Last week one of my friends put on my Facebook page "may a sad year end and a gud'n begin" I thought this was lovely. Dad always encouraged me to get to this point, I can hear his advice in my head all the time and i am going to to everything to do this well and make him proud.

Anyway Hi Ho Hi Ho its off to work I go !!!!

Happy Tuesday everyone

Karen xx

 

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Posted 04 Nov 2014 at 09:11
Nice post Karen xxxx

Mo

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Posted 04 Nov 2014 at 10:23

Lovely update Bonnie and so pleased that your first day went well BUT ....

.... now that the charity has seen fit to make our forum open to googlers, I think you have maybe shared a little too much info here and could have made yourself identifiable :-( Perhaps delete the city or the comment about frogs ....

..... and buy a shopping trolley for carrying all that paperwork!

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

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Posted 04 Nov 2014 at 23:17
Lyn

not sure I understand your concern there and I am positive Karen doesn't maybe you should send her a pm as I am sure she is worried now. I know she looks up to you and Bri for your understanding of the environment she works in.

xx

Mo

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Posted 04 Nov 2014 at 23:40

I've messaged Karen

Bri

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Posted 12 Nov 2014 at 17:21

Thank you for this post, I read the lot.
I'm on "my" journey but your heartfelt messages, and the lovely humane replies of support, suddenly jolted me out of my dark place - typical bloke, wrapped up in my own fears. You've stopped me in my tracks and made me realise what the rest of the family and friends will be going through. My job now is to stop maundering about and make their journey as easy as I can.

For that wonderful wake-up call my sincerest thanks, and I never doubted you'd get the new job, congratulations.
b0b

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Posted 12 Nov 2014 at 17:46

Lyn - when you say opened up to googlers? Could someone explain a little more please?

 

Alison

 
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