Thank you ,
I did get married December 2016, 😍
When I seen the specialist he told me to straight away before starting hormone treatment . It was all very rushed as I banked three lots of sperm between Monday and Friday of the same week and on leaving the hospital took my first tablet , I took tablets first and them had the first hormone injection and a 10 day holiday and returned for chemo ....looking back it was a mad few weeks , find out you have cancer , put off having children to suddenly praying that the small amount you produce in that room is enough to make a baby .
I thought I've got cancer and I need to start treatment asap ,My then girlfriend now wife's mother had died of bile duct cancer within 6 weeks , so the speed at which we did everything was due to the fact I thought I was gonna die within weeks ......
We always thought we had three chances ,but someone clever had split the samples so it gave us " 6 " go's ," we just filled in the forms and prayed .
It was our second attempt when we stuck gold ...looking back the first attempt was just after chemo and our lives were still coming to terms with my diagnosis
I guess maybe my advice would be to take a few weeks in banking your sperm ,as once treatment starts there is no going back . I am so lucky it worked as if we had not we would have settled for not having a family and regretted our speediness .