Bri
Good line of action just what I would have done in your situation.
I know you hate the anxiety label, but if the back ache caused you to think PSA test then maybe we should agree to call it concern?
In all honesty I don't sometimes understand why it bothers you so much, as CB has said we are all here to be supportive and we do that because we like you and care for you as friends should.
See you soon
Xx
Mo