Thanks all, came out last night, all went well but will get the results in 6 weeks, the surgeon did nerve sparing on one side only and took a wide margin on the other. Just trying to get used to the catheter which is in for two weeks. Pain is ok, more tummy discomfort around the wounds.
All in all an interesting experience and funny how my views changed as Lyn pointed out, firstly ED and continence were important then as I finally realised this is really serious, I then viewed living as the ultimate priority.
The surgeon was as confident as surgeons go, in so far as he said, subject to pathology, he felt this surgery should be all that is required, but we shall see, my only regret was having to go private. I know this was down to me and reading up so much and everything pointed to finding the best surgeon one can, best being a surgeon with lots of robotic experience, and this chap had done over 500 and he gave confidence in everything he said, so although I have paid my taxes and NI for 45 years, I felt this money well spent.
Now to wait for the catheter to go and see how well the continence goes, I worked on pelvic floor for the month prior to surgery, but I imagine that's a new journey. Already started cranberry juice, lots of water and diet, thanks to the posters, and all the information on this marvellous website, thanks again : )