Thanks, Abprops, for your inspiring email. Congratulations on your Strava challenges which are impressive. Your post will certainly encourage many of us to get out on our bikes. It's so good to hear that there is road cycling life after RP! I am used to long distance road cycling (sportives, charity rides, audax and general regular rides with mates). I rode Paris-Brest-Paris in 2003 and though that such an extreme challenge is unlikely to happen ever again, I certainly do hope to return to shorter if no less rewarding challenges with the same degree of enthusiasm and gusto as pre-op.
Following surgery at the end of Nov 2015, yesterday was my first proper 'hard' Wednesday afternoon ride (I've been riding on Wednesday afternoons for nearly 25 years). It was only 40 miles but involved 1200 metres of climbing, much of it severe, including Dartmoor's Haytor (the 'mountain-top' finish that will once again feature in this year's Tour of Britain). I did not climb excessively hard and after the ride I felt like, well, like an over-boiled cabbage (probably smelt like one too). But I was very glad simply to have been able to get around what formerly was a fairly routine if always challenging route.
I had a very big birthday two weeks after my surgery. As an incentive, my lovely wife treated me to an amazing new bicycle. All during my recovery, I would from time to time go into the shed to look at it, to dream of riding it. Once I returned to cycling, I didn't even take it on a test spin, but steadfastly rode my trusty old winter hack, waiting patiently until I was better, stronger, fitter, and the weather was more benign. I took the new bike out for the first time last Wednesday, and again yesterday. It is wonderful to feel the thrill of riding a fast, light, very comfortable and secure road bike, wonderful to feel (just about) fit enough to be on such a bike (though there is still a long, long way to go), wonderful to feel the wind in my face on fast descents, wonderful to forget completely for an exhilarating moment that this whole goddam nightmare ever happened, to feel that, yes, there is life after cancer.
As far as cycling and incontinence, I have not found this a problem. I don't bother with pads in my padded cycling shorts and I don't think I've leaked much at all, if any. Nor do I have to stop and pee any more than usual or anyone else. I've been aware of the need for a comfortable, prostate-friendly saddle for some years (interestingly, my PSA was always notably higher after cycling; I would then stay off the bike, repeat the test and it would go down). The saddle I have used most successfully is http://www.wiggle.co.uk/selle-italia-slr-kit-carbonio-flow-saddle-with-carbon-rails-1/ I plan to buy another one for my new bike.
I am due my 3-month PSA test in a week or so. Who knows what this could bring? I am hopeful yet also realistic, just trying to live and enjoy each day and moment.
Good luck to everyone going through this, and happy cycling.
Marc