Hi Viv,
My OH has had a very similar path to your dad.
Psa 9, surgery in Dec 14 -, Gleason 5 plus 4 but clear margins. All well until May 16, when psa went from undetectable to 0.05 to 0.06 to 0.08 in six months.
Our surgeon decided that it would be sensible not to wait until it rose further, and my oh had radiotherapy 12 months ago.
He has had no bowel symptoms apart from a bit of urgency during and immediately after. However, his incontinence, which plagued him from the surgery but had significantly improved took a backward turn, and is now back to square one.
It’s not an easy disease, but he knows he’s luckier than some.