Hi francij4,]
My thought? Have few beers, a good few beers or lots of wine, or whatever your tipple is. If you don't drink? Hmm.
Then see what happens.
I kid you not. I went to see my GP about several issues recently, some PCa related, some not. And as I was there item 5 on my agenda was the topic of the reliability of EF when I am outside copious amounts of beer or wine. Apparently when I have had several beers I have had a wonderful time! Sometimes I can't actually remember what happened, but I'm told that a good time was had by all. For "all" read 2, or "both".
My GP explained that this was due to the alcohol effectively anaesthetising my head and mind. My head and mind being totally relaxed, disengaged, switched off if you like, my body functions naturally. No anxiety, no worry.
From my experience, I've learnt that 3 things are needed for a good sex life:
1. Ability, you have that.
2. Interest and inclination from both sides, you have that.
2. Enthusiasm and willingness to go for it, you have that.
So many men and women here post about their anxiety. I do understand that. Shakespeare wrote about beer increasing the appetite but detracting from the performance. It is possible to buck that trend.
Maybe worth a try?
I remember you posting and reading about the break up of your marriage on here a while ago. I am so pleased for you that you and your new lady are fine.
Have a lovely Bank Holiday weekend.
atb
dave
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Things change a lot don’t they !! I think you will further improve. I’m sure some anxiety is involved which makes things touch and go , as well as divorce stuff. I still worry about erection although it is permanently ok , and any small setback can make things difficult. I’m nearly 3 years post op and have not had an orgasm as good as pre-op yet , but I do orgasm. Yes sensitivity is changed also. I can’t masturbate anymore really unles I use a pump and some lube. Best orgasms are from oral. Sex can last a good long time now but I get weak orgasms with penetrative sex tbh. Keep the faith !!
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Hi francij4,]
My thought? Have few beers, a good few beers or lots of wine, or whatever your tipple is. If you don't drink? Hmm.
Then see what happens.
I kid you not. I went to see my GP about several issues recently, some PCa related, some not. And as I was there item 5 on my agenda was the topic of the reliability of EF when I am outside copious amounts of beer or wine. Apparently when I have had several beers I have had a wonderful time! Sometimes I can't actually remember what happened, but I'm told that a good time was had by all. For "all" read 2, or "both".
My GP explained that this was due to the alcohol effectively anaesthetising my head and mind. My head and mind being totally relaxed, disengaged, switched off if you like, my body functions naturally. No anxiety, no worry.
From my experience, I've learnt that 3 things are needed for a good sex life:
1. Ability, you have that.
2. Interest and inclination from both sides, you have that.
2. Enthusiasm and willingness to go for it, you have that.
So many men and women here post about their anxiety. I do understand that. Shakespeare wrote about beer increasing the appetite but detracting from the performance. It is possible to buck that trend.
Maybe worth a try?
I remember you posting and reading about the break up of your marriage on here a while ago. I am so pleased for you that you and your new lady are fine.
Have a lovely Bank Holiday weekend.
atb
dave
All we can do - is do all that we can. So, do all you can to help yourself, then make the best of your time. :-) I am the statistic. |
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Thanks guys I think you have confirmed what I thought - it's all now in my head!!
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Well happy to say the beer red wine and pomegranate tequila cocktail worked a treat!! Smiles around thanks again guys!
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All we can do - is do all that we can. So, do all you can to help yourself, then make the best of your time. :-) I am the statistic. |