Hi Chris,
We have given up on all that sex malarkey, although I can still have a βsort ofβ orgasm with what Da Vinci left behind.
Continence is not really a problem, and I only bought one pack of fourteen Tena Lites eighteen months ago and I still have seven left. Sometimes when I get up off the settee a droplet might appear, but if I get very drunk and fall asleep on the settee I sometimes have a big leakage. This only started a few months ago. Maybe I am drinking more?
Anyway, no worries. Keep breathing!
Cheers, John.