I find sometimes the discussions on here can be very very disturbing for someone who have just be diagnosed , everyone is different and approach things their own way ,even when I was getting rt treatment a fellow patient getting rt was talking and he was in nigh on denial that he had pc. I found it very bizarre . My good friend who passed on after asbestosis , a family man ( me I am single ) saying was ‘ what will be will be ‘ what I personally found helpful was the fact that I knew 5 guys who been or going thru treatment so we compared ‘notes ‘ all still with us . Only once a friend who been thru pc said to me I should have chosen different treatment , when speaking about pc I think you got to choose your words carefully . Still this site as helped me considerably , but sometimes I found it rather ‘ heavy ‘ , to the extent that I didn’t revisit for a few days .