Thank you for your positive comments Mish. Sex is much more than erections, unfortunately I didn't realize this until it was to late and completely gave up after my op which was 14 years ago.
This eventually cost me my marriage as my wife although understanding at first decided she needed it more than me.
I have recently started into a new relationship with a knd, compassionate lady who understands my anxietys and we are able to be intimate with each other without the spectre of erections stopping me from enjoying it.
Currently injecting 40mgs of Viridal which although not enough for intercourse is perfectly okay for oral.