Omo Bami, Thanks for reaching out. Today is 3weeks and 1 day post op. The spasms have subsided, I have stopped taking the bladder relaxant. I gave up coffee last year before my pca diagnosis. I went back to work a day after the catheter was removed, day 11, energy levels are slowly returning. As for incontinence, that is mixed results. I am dry all day, but not through the night. I thought not drinking or eating after 18:00hrs and going to bed at midnight would help, I got up at 4:30 am soaking wet (almost like bed wetting!), don't really know what is going on there! However, today is a new day, and we go again. I am positive and grateful for small mercies. I am prayerful and hopefully all these minor hiccups will pass.
I wish you a quick and smooth recovery. God Bless you Brother.