Hi
I hope my reply doesn't scare you as it isn't meant to, but is know how I felt at the stage you are at and I wanted a full range of information. My husband was 61 and had a PSA of 25, and a Gleason score of ten, he does have spread to bone and lymph. Diagnosis was over three and a half years ago and he's still fine. This disease is unpredictable and no one can tell you what will happen to your dad, he could easily be one of the luckier ones who can still be cured. There are plenty of examples of that here. So all you can do for now is sit tight, hold on and hope that the MRI is clear, if that's the case then there is plenty on offer and if it isn't, well there s plenty on offer to hold back the cancer. I think, looking back, we already knew that it was going to be bad news because the urologist had already said that the prostate was hard on examination and we knew that wasn't good. Anyway, here we are, still having a good life and enjoying every minute.
Please let us know how things go and don't hesitate to ask questions, we usually have so done who knows the answer.
Kindest regards
Allison