I had a RP in May this year at the UCHL, its a really busy place, I was met by a surgeon pre- op, who told me that they wouldnt be able to do any nerve sparing because of the spread of the cancer, I was disappointed , I had no prior warning of this, but took it on the chin as I thought at least I can have it taken out and hopefully I will survive this ,
the following day in hospital, I was seen by another surgeon who had assisted the main consultant surgeon, he told me that they had managed to do a fair amount of nerve sparing , confused so am I , it was a bit of a convayor belt experience to begin with, so now I believe that anyone could have done it, doesnt matter what consultant you see before hand, unless your awake (which you wont be ) its a bit of a lottery,
sorry if I appear to be negative about this, its just my opinion, we all want the best guy to do the job, and do the best nerve sparing they can, But what's really important is that you survive and live, the rest is secondary,
youll never know for certain who performs the op, even they do not know what they will find when they start the surgery, it could be far worse than they believed or not, its an unknown factor, that wont change for the foresee able future, it doesnt come with a 100% guarantee
I have no regrets about the RP, for me it was the right decision,
I wish you well and good luck