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Ever Decreasing Circles part three

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Posted 11 Feb 2017 at 22:26

Paul playing on your ride-on ... now that's an image Julie!

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

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Posted 12 Feb 2017 at 00:08

Thanks for all the responses very helpful. Been out tonight celebrating five years survival with my children at the same restaurant we have been to every year since that first shocking realisation. I said we would go back every year to mark survival even if it was only 2/3 years. It's over an hour to get to but tonight was our sixth visit and another good night. I understood the terminal illness bit re PIP and the 6 month timescale which Lyn I hope u r right will not happen for a little time yet. But I am 65 in May and wondered whether I would get a favourable assessment. I already have a blue badge. Anyway I shall keep thinking. thanks for all the info.

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Posted 12 Feb 2017 at 19:09

Paul, I admire your positive thinking, which I've always advocated as half the battle in combating PCa. I think going back to the same place each year for a celebration is a great idea. However, I am convinced you'll be doing this first least another five years, based on my own experience, probably rather more. I remember my consultant saying over nine years ago "live every day as though it may be your last and enjoy life". With my numbers and the treatments available then, he didn't expect me to survive. But I'm doing better than that, as you are. Keep at it, mate, and don't let the b*****s get you down. If I were you, I would avoid all the mobility props as long as possible. Independence is greatly to be preferred to dependence, be it on the state or relatives or anyone else.

Keep at it, old son.

AC (73 and counting)

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Posted 14 Mar 2017 at 12:25

So back at oncologist for three monthly check up. Well PSA remains under control, no drop but more or less the same at 3.90. We then had a long discussion about my general well-being. She had asked me how I felt and said I looked well so I had to point out it was early morning and underneath I was more like a swan, looking good above water but paddling like mad to keep going. This discussion was partly to alert them to my PIP application. (Yes decided to submit an application and see where it gets me, given I'm nearly 65 and you have to submit whilst 64). My mobility is really not good, poor really and I think it's a reasonable application but I will keep you posted.

So we discussed my right leg and though she was not inclined towards a bone scan, arguing the PSA was strongly suggesting no great activity but she sent me for x-rays to check bone thinning DN11 to see what is going on on my right leg, no outcomes from that yet. Has reduced my steroid dose, concerns about side effects and I think will be moving onto enzo over the summer, hinted at anyway. Hope that reduced dose might have positive impact on my well-being whilst not bringing back symptoms which have been held steady. It's a year since I started my dexa journey and it's been a good one.

So quite a good conversation and I hope I did enough for her to support my PIP application. A year of PSA reductions is the bottom line good news and I can take that.

User
Posted 14 Mar 2017 at 12:36
Long may you drink from the cup of positivity Paul.

Bazza

User
Posted 14 Mar 2017 at 12:41

Good to hear this news...stability is a wonderful option when the roller-coaster beckons. Great that Dexa has done its job so well, and good that the steroids are being reduced. Here's to a successful PIP and wild times on the scooter (maybe get a Tony the Tiger tail to go on the aerial and a Parka jacket with the pretend fur round the hood).

Take care.

Eleanor

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Posted 14 Mar 2017 at 13:16
Hi Paul,

My wife had her PIP assessment 3 weeks ago and we're awaiting the results. She was on lifetime DLA but that's changed now. We didn't see this website beforehand but it may be helpful:

https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/benefits/sick-or-disabled-people-and-carers/pip/help-with-your-pip-claim/your-assessment/

Arthur

User
Posted 14 Mar 2017 at 14:13
Paul

Here's a brilliant advice piece on YourAble how to present the best possible PIP application.

http://www.youreable.com/forums/showthread.php/6904-PIP-success-story-and-some-reflections

Bazza

User
Posted 14 Mar 2017 at 16:21

Glad life is treating you kindly Paul, even if you are paddling madly!
Good luck with your PIP application. Hope you get a good result

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails
User
Posted 14 Mar 2017 at 17:38

Maintained PSA - wow and double wow. You are another example of how predictions can be wildly wrong; am looking forward to pogo-ing around with you soon x

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 14 Mar 2017 at 19:46

Great to hear the PSA is holding steady Paul. I'm sure she will support you with the PIP application

We shall have to arrange breakfast to celebrate

Bri

User
Posted 14 Mar 2017 at 20:33
Po-going that has really made me smile actually scrap the smile that has made me laugh out loud or as the new term for youngsters is LOL . I remember it well .😄

Sorry Paul I can't type as still laughing .

Alright I have sorted myself so brilliant that the PSA is holding steady that is music to my ears I do have worries in the reduction in Dexa but I am sure you will sort it if it needs to go up a touch.

Regarding the pip application I don't think it is wise that you mention that you can Po- Go round the block. 😉

Love you loads Paul you know that and just taking a moment to be serious you deserve a helping hand and I know how much you have struggled with walking etc .

BFN

Julie X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON
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Posted 14 Mar 2017 at 21:38
Great news Paul so pleased for you

Not sure what Lyn is up to I thought it was a nice sedate evening with good company not a punk revival

Look forward to seeing you soon

Si

Don't deny the diagnosis; try to defy the verdict
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Posted 14 Mar 2017 at 22:03

It says on the PIP form, how many times have you a) pogoed in the last year b) pogoed with Lyn in the last year c) can you pogo on a mobility scooter. I did not know how to answer until Lyn and my crazy wonderful friends got involved. Thanks for your continued support it means a lot.

User
Posted 15 Mar 2017 at 00:30
Hi Paul,

Really pleased that the PSA is being controlled so well.

Good Luck with the PIP form, I know what a nightmare it can be filling out anything like that.

Take care of yourself and look forward to the new cricket season.

Steve

User
Posted 15 Mar 2017 at 09:10
P

Good news on the PSA and I hope your​ PIP is approved.

Thanks Chris

User
Posted 15 Mar 2017 at 16:48

Hi Paul,

Congratulations on your continued PCa stabilty .

You ARE another great example of how grim prognoses and pessimistic predictions are not written in stone.

Thank you for cheering up all us wannabe old codgers (well, you're nearly 65 and I'm nearly 66, and I'm busy spreading fake news that mid-60s is the 'new mid-30s').


Two reasons for us to be cheerful:

1) Such an encouraging post.
2) The way the thread became hilariously Pythonesque!


All the best,

See you at The Mill in 107 days or so,

George

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Posted 04 Apr 2017 at 13:42

Just a quick update. Decided to go into the oncology clinic this morning as not been feeling too good since reduction in steroid dosage. No problem with seeing me despite a typically busy NHS clinic and waited less than hour. Seen by the main man who was very helpful. Dexa dosage to stay the same but put on paracetamol and a stronger pain killer - oxynorn - if needed. Also anti-sickness if needed. We discussed the fact that it's nearly two years since a bone scan and one was immediately ordered with a ct scan too. So pleased with that as can double check that the PSA improvements are reflected in the scans. In the meantime hopefully can keep the pain in control and get some energy back.

PIP form went in last week just waiting for assessment now. The way I feel this week could do with assessment now!

So hopefully I will get used to my new normal and find more energy in the weeks ahead.

User
Posted 04 Apr 2017 at 17:32

Sorry you've been feeling under the weather Paul (understatement of the year I expect eh!) and I hope seeing the consultant and obtaining pain relief will help you get your mojo back !!

 

Thinking of you

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails
User
Posted 05 Apr 2017 at 01:52
So sorry to read this Paul but not exactly surprised I have always found that once on the steroid journey it is very hard to then reduce . Trevor has remained on the same dose since he started them . Of course I understand that GPS would normally like to reduce them due to long term side affects but long term being the operative wording and some of us don't have the luxury of long term.

I can't believe that it is two years since you have been scanned, I have fingers and toes crossed for that.

Trevor's pain has been really well controlled with the slow release morphine 2 x daily and the paracetamol 4 hourly .

Loving your blog 💗

BFN

Julie X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON
 
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