Hi all ,well surgery is done and dusted. It took four hours and the doctor did not want Erwell to be under anaesthetic for longer so he said that he looked at lymph glands with a microscope and decided no sign of cancer so left them. Not sure what the implications of his will be.. Erwell has recovered remarkably well. Back to the ward 7 pm and spoke to our children on the phone to reassure them he was still alive. Lol. This morning, Oz time, he is showered and sitting in a chair . So far all good. Thanks for the support . He went into this open prostatectomy with me at least well informed. it is so true that knowledge is empowering . I have been able to take it one step at a time. I know there will be many more steps to take but feeling good at present. Georgina