Hi, I'm new to this site, I've used sites like these in the past and found the forums to be extremely useful. Both to find and give information, as well as to get a feeling of support.
I'm writing because my Dad most likely has Prostate cancer. He's always been a very closed person, and I know he finds it very difficult to talk about this to me. He prefers to hide his emotions. The only real information I'm getting is brief conversations with my mum (who knows equally as little as me) and reading letters from the hospital sent to my dad. Coming from a very small family, (well, even if I wasn't) I feel it is very important for me to help my dad as much as possible through this, and I guess with that, first comes understanding.
Last February my Dad had a very high PSA reading, this led to further PSA tests and a biopsy. The Biopsy came back ok, but because of the high reading they wanted to do more tests. In September, he had another PSA test. This showed that it had risen (I can't remember the exact reading, but it was 2.5 or so higher than the previous). The Doctors wanted to send him straight for MRI but he refused, he has a big fear of this and is very claustrophobic. The doctors agreed to retest in December and go from there. The test again showed rising PSA, so he now has a MRI booked for 2 weeks time.
Knowing that my dad is very scared about this, I was wondering if anyone could provide me with any advice that I could give to him? I've looked up and some sites mention bringing a CD with you. I know this would help my dad a lot, I was wondering if anyone knew how common it was to allow this? If anyone has any other tips to help my dad in this experience, it would be very appreciated.
I also just want a clearer understanding of what the MRI test is for. My understanding is that this generally comes after a diagnosis of Prostate Cancer- but my dad's biopsy was negative and he hasn't been given a formal diagnosis of it before? Is there a chance then that he doesn't have cancer? I know noone can officially answer this.. I just wanted to know if anyone can give me more info about the MRI scan.
Thanks!