Hello Peggy and welcome.
Sorry that your other half has had problems in addition to PC.
Ten + years on watch and wait meant the cancer was a slow grower. My own husband 72/3 at the time was put on active surveillance but after a year or so had to make a decision regarding treatment.
Please do not despair or think this is the beginning of the end.
You are both a long way from that.
To obtain "The Toolkit" go back to the home page. Go to INFORMATION then OUR PUBLICATIONS.
If you then click on "Publication" there will be another box where you can choose that which is most relevant to you.
All free of charge.
They are very informative booklets/info sheets relating to PC and its treatment.
Chin up. We're all here, in much the same boat, sailing the same journey as yourselves.
Some of us hit stormy weather, for others it's fairly plain sailing
(What a lot of nautical terms in one message - not even a sailor!)
Anyway, you've found us now so ask away anything you want to know. Somebody is bound to know the answer, or know somebody who does.
Best Wishes
Sandra