Please could anyone who has started Radium223 or xiofigo treatment please try to help me on the waiting game of actually starting it.
OH got appointment with oncologist on the 9th April after having a CT scan to hopefully start this treatment.
what i want to know is, Will he get it the same day if she approves it or will it be ANOTHER APPOINTMENT.
I feel I can't wait any longer as (here comes the rant n rave n upset) his treatment on XTANDI has not been working really since last January, his PSA went up from 54 to 80. The oncologist requested OH restart Zometa as that may help lower his PSA and help pain.
I feel she was correct to try this first but by early March his PSA had jumped to 188, so on our next appointment which was on 19th March, she (oncologist) informed us obviously the Xtandi had stopped working and that he was to have a CT scan and on getting the results, see her again on the 9th April either start a course of xiofigo or something else (forgot what the alternative was).
After hearing nothing by Friday 27th March we phoned to be told by the scan dept " Oh have you been booked in", then "Oh sorry I see your details now". Please can you call Monday at 7.30 am for scan.
We know all NHS medical staff are overworked and things get lost or mislaid due to the this and they are wonderful when you actually arrive for your appointment.
What we didn't realise was that with the clocks going forward on Sunday, OH already having a pain level of 5 out of 10, having to get up after a rough night anyway for 5.15am, having the scan, then driving home which luckily is only a 20 minute drive, it had thoroughly wiped him out, and has spent the rest of the week more or less in bed, pain level 6 to 8 on occasions.
But my/our worst fear now is waiting another 6 days for appointment only to be told we will have to wait longer while another appointment is booked should OH be approved for the radium223 injections.
He has really deteriorated with not being on treatment that works since January and apart from taking more medication there is nothing we can do for now, but I am willing the days past, and i don't know if I could cope with the stress although hiding this from him, or he with pain, not eating much and that he's confined to bed all day to be waiting any longer even though I do know, we may have to, but it will be such a relief to see and get treatment started on the same day. Please God hear my plea.
i would like to thank all in advance for taking the time to read and reply if possible as it has helped to put my thoughts into words and my anxiety has been replaced with tears at the moment. good job OH in bed
June (partner of Patrick)