Hi Blade Runner,
Just seen your messages and thought I would say hello. My Husband is 47 and has a stage T3 Pca, diagnosed Nov '14. I am 35 and we have a 5 year old daughter. The original scans showed it was contained in prostate, so he had the prostate removed in Jan '15- however, they then found it had spread, and a lymph node dissection chowed 1 lymph node involved, as well as bladder neck and seminal vesicles.
To cut a long story short, even though they removed the prostate, he too is now on hormone therapy. Has had one injection and has second tomorrow. May need radiotherapy, but there are two further suspicious nodes outside of pelivc area as well.
Anyway, it's just to say please carry on with hope and be encouraged by the positive stories you will read. Every day tell the cancer it will not win! Even in your situation (my husband also is gleason 9), I do believe there is much that can be done and much to hold on to. Pete had a PSA of 46 at the beginning.
We also have a family froend whose PSA was originally 200. He went straight on to hormones, and that was 2 years ago and he is still absolutely fine, working, looking and feeling healthy.
SO please take heart. It is such a support to have this forum! All the very best xx