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Chris J's Journey

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Posted 30 May 2019 at 13:18

That’s brilliant news Chris . You are listening to your body ( and mind ) to make these decisions and I am in awe of your courage.


I know I’ve been lucky with the Prostap regarding physical affects but I have to say I hate what it’s done to my mind ☹️.


if I were you I’d stay off as long as you can. 


Sone of us seem to be more prone to the mental issues with HT. Mine possibly because of my childhood and for others I can’t say but I would be wary because of your existing Bipolar. 


Hope you’ve had those glasses of wine 🍷 🍷....you certainly deserve it.


best of luck for the future.


Phil

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Posted 02 Jun 2019 at 19:44
Thanks all for replies. Yes I’m a lot perplexed. I genuinely got back from cruise expecting the worse and HT and Chemo start over summer which I think I would have refused. Truth is I’ve not even been offered any other treatment than SRT which I’ve been told is highly unlikely to be successful. He won’t treat something he can’t see. He’s always said that. If it was in my pelvis it would be the size of a tangerine. I’m an utter classic case of oligo mets. All over my body probably but nothing solid yet. I know it’s coming but I don’t think I’ll ever have regrets now I’ve enjoyed totally normal life for 2 yrs. It’s my 52nd Birthday Friday and four years post op on the 15th. Yes the worry never goes away ever , but I’ve booked another cruise end August and just hope nothing crops up in the meantime. Stay well all x

If life gives you lemons , then make lemonade
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Posted 30 Aug 2019 at 10:19

Hi all. Just a quick update. I’m off on a 13 night cruise on my own tomorrow so very excited. Separate hols this year but that’s fine.
I’ve been feeling a bit unwell , bad back , fatigue etc and not due to see Onco for scans etc until November so I went to my GP. He did full bloods and basically everything seems fine within me. My PSA has risen from 82 in December ‘18 to 190 now. As you know I’m not really alarmed or surprised by this , but the doubling time has really dropped back last few times. Used to be 3 monthly doubling and now seems more like 7 monthly. Does anyone have any views on this ??
Anyway still choosing to Watchful Wait until any scans show anything up or I feel ill. Really enjoying QOL

Edited by member 30 Aug 2019 at 14:31  | Reason: Not specified


If life gives you lemons , then make lemonade
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Posted 30 Aug 2019 at 11:45

Hi Chris


My theory as regards the doubling time is that when we treat the cancer in the hope of eliminating it, we may kill some of the less mature cells but the remainder mutate and become more agressive and shortening the doubling time as happened to me after Chemo which I now regret, as my quality of life now is not the best, and my doubling time has reduced from 2-3 months then to less than a month now. I admire the way you are approaching this but I would probably want a scan earlier as there maybe something showing up that can be eliminated via a curative process rather than trying to suppress it. By not treating via chemo and HT the cancer has not being threatened and therefore not mutating into a more agressive form. This is only my personal opinion though. Enjoy your holiday and keep us informed.


All the best


Roy

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Posted 30 Aug 2019 at 12:03
Thanks Roy. I had CT and bone both in Jan and May. Can’t have any more till Nov re kidney damage from contrasts etc. Strangely although I’ve had two PET scans , they aren’t offering another. Cheers

If life gives you lemons , then make lemonade
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Posted 30 Aug 2019 at 14:21

CJ


Have a great time. Thanks Chris

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Posted 30 Aug 2019 at 23:08

Enjoy the cruise Chris.


 

Ido4

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Posted 30 Aug 2019 at 23:24
Probably all that lego you lug around!

Enjoy the cruise, my friend :-)
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
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Posted 31 Aug 2019 at 06:55
Still admiring your approach Chris. Hope the cruise helps with the fatigue etc. Enjoy.

All the best

Cheers
Bill
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Posted 31 Aug 2019 at 09:27
I am NOT still admiring the approach, or at least I won't be come November / December. I think you should have another scan (maybe a different one - worth contacting the FACBC trial people?) and then start HT regardless - it is clear from your social media that little P is the light of your life so at what point does sex become less important than his need to have his dad around as he grows up (or at least grows up a bit more)?

You are a clever man and you know first hand that later stage PCa can be horrific. There wouldn't be much sex with lymphodema, organ failure, jaundice, bone pain, etc. Have à wonderful cruise and then it will be Christmas - perhaps then a new year / new approach?
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
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Posted 31 Aug 2019 at 13:54

Lyn has some valid comments. Enjoy the cruise.

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Posted 31 Aug 2019 at 15:29
I’d just like to add that I haven’t actually been OFFERED HT or Chemo yet because I’ve refused RT ( which you agree Lyn is pointless ) , and I don’t think they can move foreword without visual evidence I have advanced PCa. Yes I know psa is showing that but there isn’t any visual evidence to speak of. I’m being scanned as often as is safe to my body.

If life gives you lemons , then make lemonade
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Posted 31 Aug 2019 at 17:12
It is a crazy situation, isn’t it? If you were newly diagnosed right now with a PSA that high, they would have you on HT before you could blink regardless of whether they could pinpoint it on a scan. To be fair to your onco, you have been consistent with the QOL message so he probably doesn’t dare mention it to you 😂
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
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Posted 01 Sep 2019 at 08:15
Enjoy your cruise, Chris. I really would urge you to go on HT. For me the side-effects of it haven’t been too bad at all, and there’s no doubt that it would get your PSA right down.

Very best wishes,

Chris
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Posted 04 Sep 2019 at 16:42

Hi Chris, just go and enjoy yourself as much as you can. No one can tell you what to do , only you know your feelings, your body and your relationship with your family.


I’ve been on here saying how few side affects I have on Prostap but after my last one in October I am determined to never go back on it whatever happens. It has completely decimated my mind and I so badly want to get get back to some kind of normality. I know my issues are historical from childhood but I understand you suffer with the mental side of things too and I wonder if HT would also cause problems for you, or maybe not, no one will know till you have to try it.


I suppose all I’m saying is if you & your family are happy with your decisions then don’t have any regrets.


Hope you have a fantastic time.


 

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Posted 08 Oct 2019 at 13:02

I sat reflecting last night at my situation and the loss of a few members recently. It sank in that a fair few of the members who had been on here a couple of years before me , are now gone or very poorly. And I’m 4 1/2 yrs into this journey G9T4N1MX.
All I’ve had is RP and a small stint of Bicalutamide and at present on zero treatment with psa 190.
All this journey I have been symptom-free. In fact if anything the problems I have all started post surgery. Anyway scans at the end of this month and I’m convinced they must find something surely now ??? I have chronic lower back pain and full length leg pain in each leg. I guess in a way I’ve been ( lucky ) to get this far with very little intervention and that has made me quite nonchalant about it all , but I know a nasty surprise is just around the corner and I intend to fight it all the way.
Best wishes to us all !!

Edited by member 09 Oct 2019 at 10:00  | Reason: Not specified


If life gives you lemons , then make lemonade
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Posted 08 Oct 2019 at 14:56

Hi Chris, I wish you the best for your upcoming scans. I get the feeling you’d like to know the reasons for the back and leg pains ?


I hope you can stay off the HT for as long as possible as I know how much it can mess with your mind especially with pre-existing issues I.e. Bi-Polar.


Its funny I almost feel like one of the oldies now....started my journey in July ‘17 with a final diagnosis in December of that year.


My final HT injection on the 18th of this month and then the difficult wait to see if the treatment has worked and also that all the bits start working as they did before 😆😆.


So again best of luck for the scans. It’s a very brave path you tread .


Phil

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Posted 08 Oct 2019 at 15:26
Hi Chris,

Sorry to hear that you are concerned about the latest tests. It's understandable anxiety especially in light of the sad losses recently of men who have been here for a while now.

I hope that there isn't a nasty surprise around the corner, and you have nothing to fear or face. But, you continue to be an inspiration and a constant source of support and encouragement to many others.

Good luck to you and my best wishes to your family.

dave
Do all you can to help yourself, then make the best of your time. :-)
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Posted 08 Oct 2019 at 17:24

Wishing you all the best for the next set of scans Chris. I think you’re right to expect something to show up sooner or later with your PSA level as it is. You have made your treatment choices with QOL in mind, I wonder sometimes whether I have gone at treatment too enthusiastically but that was my choice.


I follow your journey and am with you all the way.


 

Ido4

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Posted 08 Oct 2019 at 20:15

Hi Chris ,


i changed my avatar back just for you 😉. 


So scores on the doors aren’t brilliant but your journey so far has been so different from the norm.  You have all of the tools left in the bag . You have got this .


Good luck with scans .


BFN


Julie X

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