well at three score and ten, you had a 70% chance of having prostate cancer so I think you are right not to rush into moving. Best to wait for the rest of your results and then work out whether Scotland or England is better for you in terms of treatment options - there are differences between the two nations in terms of access to certain drugs, the newest kinds of radiotherapy, etc. If you were my dad, I would probably want you to have treatment in England and then ongoing support in Scotland but that may not be practical or even lawful!!!
When they said it was 'aggressive' that didn't necessarily mean how it sounds. 'Aggressive' describes the Gleason score so yours is aggressive because you have a G7 (4+3) which is considered slightly more worrying than a 3+4 but not as serious as a 4+4, 4+5, 5+4 or 5+5. The lowest score is 3+3. G7 and above isn't usually recommended as suitable for active surveillance (AS) so you will probably be encouraged to have treatment of some kind rather than just keep an eye on it; however, there are lots of reasons why AS is the right choice for some men and you will no doubt have an opportunity to talk all the options through soon enough.
In prostate cancer, 'aggressive' doesn't necessarily mean that it has spread - the word they use to describe that is 'advanced'. It will be an anxious time for you until you have all your results but your PSA isn't scarily high and hopefully you will still be around to see your 80s or 90s. My dad was diagnosed 13 years ago and is still doing great.
If your children want to understand more about PCa, they can download or order the toolkit from this charity (link at top of the page somewhere)
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Many thanks LynnEyre for your help and encouragement. I suppose it is not knowing exactly where this is all leading that is difficult. Having read many of the posts I realise how fortunate I am and how much can be done to deal with Pca. In a fortnight all will be revealed and I'll maybe come on again looking for advice. Thanks.
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Nigel , it is scary and you seem to have had your share of health problems. However, I believe Lyn is right in stating it is not a cause to rush into anything. My husband who is aged almost 74 was diagnosed early this year. He too had a gleason 4 + 3 at biopsy . We opted for open surgery and he coped very well with the operation and post operative period . Things are now pretty much to normal. There is certainly a lot of life after a diagnosis of Pca as the many folk on this site can vouch for. Good luck on this journey no one volunteers for. Georgina
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Nigel
My husband had a PSA of 19.7 and his Gleason score is the same as yours, he was given 3 treatments options to choose from and has just started on his treatment plan of choice.
You can always call the PCUK specialist nurses for a chat, I found them very helpful: 08000748383
All the best
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Just to say hello and welcome Nigel.
Sorry you've been out through the mill but you have joined the right site for advice.
All the best
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I appreciate the support and encouragement. I've ordered the tool kit and hopefully will be better prepared to deal with my options once all the tests are completed. Strange as it may seem I neither feel ill nor regard myself as being ill. Perhaps there is much more stress on my wife. We have been together since we were barely teenagers. And of course our children, adults though they are,who realise that we are actually mortal.
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It' a frightening time for everyone but together you will get through it, just as you have before.
Stress on us wives is a definite, and your children, at whatever age they are, still remain your children don't they.
You'll get a wealth of information from the Toolkit but it is bound to also produce questions so ask away.
Best Wishes to all of you
Sandra
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It's now 8 weeks since I last posted and its been quite a roller coaster ride since then. I met with my urologist who informed me that the cancer was not contained within the capsule and the bone scan showed light metastatic cancer on my ribs. As such an op was no longer to be considered and he was passing me over to the Onco whom I met a few days later. He was very encouraging and gave my wife and myself a feeling of trustworthiness and intent to help. After explaining the protocol he gave me an Rx for monthly injections on decapeptyl and an appointment for six weeks later (Aug 6th) when chemo would probably be arranged. In the meantime arrangements would be made for a CT scan of the chest abdomen and pelvis. This would ensure that none of the soft organs were involved. I think I'm reasonably philosophical about my condition and refuse to waste too much time worrying about what may happen before it happens. My wife felt that every time we met the experts it had been bad news. The waiting to see the onco whose clinic was running an hour late was difficult for my wife and when we were finally called she was in a very nervous state. Let me say at this juncture that the nursing staff in the hospital had been most kind and understanding. Unfortunately, the onco was on holiday and we were seen by his registrar, a kind and helpful young ( they're all so young!) lady. She said that the results of the CT scan had got them all confused as there was no sign of matastatic cancer anywhere. There was a small mark on the pelvis which was probably benign. Chemo would not be started just now and the team are considering radical radiotherapy. As the urologist had considered a prostatectomy and removal of seminal vessals before the original bone scan results, I asked if this would now be considered again but was told that it is no longer possible. The Oncologist is back next week and will phone me after he has met with the relevant specialists to consider the latest results. While it all seems the best possible outcome of the most recent CT scan I am rather confused.
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This is just a possibility: the Urologist noting escaped from capsule plus reading of bone scan referred to Oncologist. The Oncologist also noting escaped from capsule and perhaps being busy took the scan interpretation as correct so put you on HT. With CT scan being clear where next? Surgery may be ruled out because its escaped and or as you have commenced HT it can make nerve sparing more difficult. So RT combined with your HT would seem the way foward, but?
Ray
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Nigel
Hi, that 8 weeks of waiting must have been quite hard for you and and also for your wife too. It sounds like you are a calm and rational thinker which is great. When PCa breaks outside of the prostate gland itself its spread can be incredibly random, if it is still in very small amounts these can be hard to pick up on a standard CT or MRI scan. The radioactive bone scans will show brighter spots but even these can be a little misleading. Any treatment given can also shrink these spots even further, and in a relatively short space of time, if your cancer is receptive to HT.
I am hoping one of the members here who has a lot more experience and knowledge of this can elaboarte on my thinking and post a more comprehensive reply than me.
I would think another PSA test will show if the HT is really having an impact and also give a sign of the level of activity.
In the meantime waiting to hear from the Consultant Oncology before you make any further decisions, especially about moving closer to the rest of your family is probably the sensible way forward.
I wish you all the very best
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Mo