I started a thread on this page so won't repeat it all. On the fatigue front it seems quite consistent but peeked with the double whammy of RT, by the time I got home I was fit for no more than hours of mind numbing TV. I'm over that now but I certainly don't have the energy I did.
I'm lucky not to have many hot flushes, it's mostly limited to night sweats but not serious and resolved simply by choosing a limb to hang out from under the duvet,
The mood swings (dives) have been and are still the main problem, uncontrollable weeping. Mostly I cope by not going out unless I have to. Hopefully I've had my last injection of Decapeptyl end of June but won't know that till a Sept appt with the Onco who has been very supportive. It's hard for someone who normally isn't going to die with a laugh still in me, if I have to I'll have the last of the 4 injections we first discussed at the outset but if this crappy illness isn't resolved by then it'll have to be dealt with by a HT free method. I have other health issues & wouldn't want my last years, looking far more negatively than merited, to be spent weeping.
I'd caution against taking me too seriously though, we all know that we don't all get the same side effects nor to the same degree. just as the side effects vary so does the coping mechanisms we develope and I think this too will affect how the symptoms accumulate.
Good luck to your OH and of course to you.
Mike