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It's a Start!

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Posted 04 Feb 2016 at 14:02

Toast it doesn't really matter who is worse of than anyone else does it, because really you can only worry about yourself.

Yes it may seem as if you are luckier than others and perhaps you are but all you can do is concentrate on what is happening in your life.

There may showers along the way, perhaps some will be heavier than others, but with the umbrella of love and care that will be opened over you, you'll get through it.

The next two months are going to seem so long for you but no point in worrying over what might be going to happen in the future (futile to say that I know since it's very hard to get an idea out of your head once it's in there - especially during the sleepless times) but you spoil the "today" that you have.

Fingers crossed for you for an excellent result

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails
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Posted 04 Feb 2016 at 18:22
Steven

thanks so much for your update which is really honest and open as your posts always are.

So chemo is over for now and you have managed to work right through it, keep active in the bedroom, not lose your head hair and feel pretty good in yourself. That is fantastic and probably is reflected in the tumbling PSA figures you have had.

The two month wait must be a mental torture, I can't say I understand because that is not possible but I can say I try to imagine just how difficult it is. One way to look at it is that your body has just had the equivalent of a major battle going on inside it, so two months of relative peace and re mustering is essential to prepare for whatever comes next. To give you the best chance to force the enemy to retreat for a good long while. That could mean any number of treatment options and a timespan that seems to be as individual to each man as this disease itself. So second guessing is not really productive.

The scans will show just how much the chemo and HT have affected the actual tumours. Many men see a really big difference post chemo with fewer and smaller tumours and others see no real change but no progression at all. Remember as well that chemo continues to work for a little while after that treatment ends so waiting a month or so for the scans is not unusual. I believe SiNess' Oncologist says that there are two things that he counts as success in any treatment. No progression or some regression and/ or a reducing PSA and to get both is a really good result.

So enjoy your Italian wines (I am extremely partial to a glass or two of Amerone myself) keep up the sensible diet and exercise and have as much fun as you can with that lovley lady of yours and also with your families. Then the time might go by much quicker than you expected. I do hope so.

My very best wishes as always

xxx

Mo

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Posted 04 Feb 2016 at 18:36

Hi Steven,

Great update, bet your glad it is finished.

When i finished Chemo i went straight on to Abbi, i think my Onco felt the need with the amount of spread i had. If i was to do it all again i would have done what Mo said, take a break and recharge the batteries.

Si

Don't deny the diagnosis; try to defy the verdict
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Posted 05 Feb 2016 at 12:12

Thanks one and all for the replies. You are right that there's not much to be done so taken your advise and head out to isle of Arran next week for a few days and also booked a week on isle of Lewis the week before results come in. Feel there's nothing like walking on the outer isle beaches in the driving wind and rain, hopefully with some sun, and cook some fresh seafood, have white wine and a laugh with the girls! Even work is beginning to take a back seat.

Again thanks for your continued posts.

Steven

 
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