Thank you all for your encouraging words. Arthur it's good to know that you were offered RT and that it seems to be working. Paul, yes my bro is on the Stampede trial but just on the control arm but that still gives him the benefit of more regular monitoring. Glad things are going well for you too.
Sandra, you're there for everyone and your words are very welcome! We're feeling much more optimistic now and the next thing is to tell our mum - we've kept if from her because dad is at end of life and we didn't think she could handle anything else. But my brother has said that the strain of keeping it to himself has got too much and he just wants it out in the open.