Hi Maureen,
I think the best way to deal with this issue, is to put Tamsulosin and prostate cancer issues to one side and focus first upon blood pressure issues.
I was probablly typical of many in that when I was first diagnosed with high blood pressure it was a major issue for both me and my doctors. The doctors had me back for several appointments as they started me on 5mg Ramiprill, then upped it to 10mg, then put me on other tablets, after several weeks I ended up on three different tablets every morning.
I even bought one of those blood pressure test machines from the chemists and used to take my blood pressure several times a day.
But as it stabilised, I got bored with that and got on with living my life, 3 monthly check ups with the doctors, became 6 monthly, and for 7 years every morning I dutifully took my Ramiprill tablet and the others.
So it came to pass that the last time my blood pressure was checked by anyone was last March, at my appointment with the dibetes nurse for my annual diabetic review. She told me to loose weight and I so I went on a diet, sliming down from 16 to 14 stone.
I did call and see the GP in the meantime (about PCa side effects, bowel issues etc) but neither me or my doctor bothered to test my blood pressure I just kept taking the tablets out of habit.
Then of course along came my appointment with my Consultant who put me on tamsulosin and I fell over, literally.
So I think the important lesson, is to keep getting your blood pressure checked, I know it is tedious, but it is important, as you said your husband is a taxi driver, I was lucky in that I was walking across a field of hay, couldn't have happened in a better place, but I had been driving a couple of hours earlier.
:)
Dave