Hello Fiona and thank you for your very informative reply.
Yes I do keep records of all results, hospital/GP visits, test results where we are given them (though it's like pulling teeth getting them) and every conversation we have with clinicians. We visited an oncologist doctor only once where we were told no other treatment was available except hormone injections. We asked him about radiotherapy as the urologist nurse had told us that this would probably be offered by the doctor but he said not. No further appointments have been made with him for us. We see only the urologist nurse every 4 months. My OH doesn't have any other medical problems, he was very fit and healthy at 74yrs prior to the symptoms which resulted in the prostate cancer diagnosis last year.
I have read the PC tool kit and understand a little of the options. I will also read up on the NICE guidelines, thank you.
I have updated his profile as realise it helps people who respond to my posts. (This is such a learning curve for us) My OH is still in denial which makes it even more difficult.
His gleason score at diagnosis was 10. T stage = T4, N stage N2, M stage M0.
We were relieved the bone scan revealed no cancer found and we thought he would be offered treatment to help stop the cancer spreading further.
I would greatly appreciate any advice from people in similar circumstances to us.
Thank you so much
Polly