Hello leila
We had a similar experience with our gp. He sat on a well man check psa result of 6.7 for ten months, and only repeated the test when my husband attended for something completely unrelated. When the second result came back at 9.2, he said he wasn't worried, and suggested we could watch and wait if we wanted. As my father had already had Pca, I knew to say no to this!! Fortunate as my oh had a Gleason on 9. However, post op, he's gone out of his way to help- he has prescribed whatever we've requested.
With regard to your diagnosis. It's very similar to my fathers. He was diagnosed at 61, Gleason 7, psa 38, spread to seminal vesicles, no bone spread. Fourteen years on, he's just celebrated his 75th, and is well. He had RT, followed by HT. His psa is still 0.5, he has a bone scan every year and it's still clear. At his last appointment, his doctor said that it was unlikely he would die from Pca. There is plenty of light in the tunnel.
Louise x