Hi, My husband has stage 3 locally advanced prostate cancer, with a gleason reading of 9. He was been catheterised for about 6 weeks, and is hopefully due to have it removed next week. He has developed a pain in his right side, he is reluctant to seek advice. I am also aware he is very scared of having the catheter removed, he has had problems with retention twice since his biopsy.I am sensitive enough not to push him, and realise his fears. He is keeping his feelings well nailed down, not like him. I think he's worried that i may not cope with his fears. i would value views and advice please. Thanks Leila