Chris - really sorry about the bad time you are having. I am just wondering what's in store for me. Chatting to my brother who was on it for 20 months he said he got none of the mood swings or depression but he did get hot flushes. The worst thing for him was breast pain and, related to that, the moobs although I have to say they are not that noticeable.
Initially he was offered a shot of radiotherapy to the nipple area to help but that was withdrawn because it was deemed to be too near his heart (he has has some issues with irregular heartbeat). I don't know if that was the reason given though.
I read there are 2 strengths - 50 mg and 150 mg - so I guess the higher dose is worse.
Looks like everybody reacts in different ways to bicalutamide and I guess to all the hormone drugs.