Thanks guys.
Like you Luther, we are inclined to leave alone until there is no improvement at all, then to see if he can live with it. I think it bothers him much more than the ED (although the injections are working well. Too well sometimes!) and it doesn't help that, as time goes by, everyone assumes he's 'over it all'
He always liked a drink, and this is now something he has to be careful with. He can drink so much, but once he tips over the limit, all hell breaks loose! He tends to stick with wine nowadays, but I know he misses beer. Maybe a small price to pay.
He has had instruction on pelvic floors (hates it, doesn't think it helps) but nothing else. I think the nurse thinks it's a stress incontinence. Should we ask for further tests? If so, what? I think the oh is very loathe to have anyone else fiddling with his bits!