Hi Chris and Lyn
Thank you both for taking the time and trouble to give me some feedback, it is really appreciated.
The gist of the conversations with the Onco so far:
There are cells and we honestly don't know where they are. Without knowing this RT could be a waste of time as we don't know where to target it. If cells are in the prostate bed then RT can be targeted effectively and hopefully will kill them. If they are floating around elsewhere then the RT would be a waste of time and so we would go for HT which kill most and damage most of the remainder.
He said that in most cases if the PSA remains the same or rises very slowly this would indicate that the cells are in the prostate bed, if the PSA rises very quickly then it would indicate they are elsewhere. This is why we agreed to monitor PSA to see what was happening. He has indicated that if in April the PSA is at 0.4 or above, he would possibly offer me a new flucoiclovine PET/CT scan as part of a trial as they belive that this may highlight the location of the cells. He has not mentioned HT and RT at the same time.
From what both of you and Dave have said, I need to be talking to him about what happens if I stay at 0.3 and so do not get the trial PET/CT scan. I am pleased to say that this is all making some kind of sense to me now thanks to you all.
I hasten to add then I don't think I am in denial about it, it's just that for some reason the only thing I have had on my mind has been getting on top of the incontinence rather than why it was there in the first place. My wife tells me that I have a very strange way of dealing with life so I will not be the slightest bit offended if you think the same. It's just there are so many good things going on that I just deal with the other stuff, move on and don't look back.
Thanks so much for your help thus far.
Kind regards to all,
Kevan