Hi,
I'm posting here because I'm trying to work out my own risk for prostrate cancer based on my family history. I'm 41 - which I realise is normally well below the point of being at risk - but I have an elder brother (19 years older than me) who had early stage prostrate cancer at 55 (2010) and a father (now deceased) who may have had prostrate cancer.
What I know for certain is that my Dad had some sort of prostrate issue between the age of 60 (1986) and 66 (1992) - I can't remember when exactly. I'm not sure I was ever told exactly what was up, but I do remember him having some sort of laser surgery to remove or reduce (I don't know which) an enlarged prostrate. I don't know if this was due to cancer or not. I was still a teenager at the time, but my older brothers who were adults by then don't appear to know any more (and perhaps may even know less due to having left home by then).
Some years later - at age 74 - cancer was discovered in my Dad's gall bladder - this was not expected, he was having an op for something else - possibly involving complete removal. After this he was then put in for another op to remove suspected cancer in the liver, but this was aborted as by then the cancer had spread and was terminal. He died at 76. I'm pretty sure there was no conclusion as to where the cancer started. It was at around this time that my parents first referred to the earlier prostrate issues in terms of "cancer". I don't know if this was merely suspicion with little basis on fact, or whether Dad had indeed been diagnosed with prostrate cancer in his 60s but had simply not told me (or it appears, anyone else).
My Mum is still alive, but has dementia. I will try and discuss it with her, but this is unlikely to bear fruit - at least not reliable ones.
Probably the most relevant question at the moment is whether laser surgery would have been used between 1986 and 1992 on the English NHS to treat prostrate cancer. If not, I can at least conclude that Dad more likely had benign prostrate enlargement.
This may help if and when I ask my GP about potential PSA tests.
(And the moral of this story is for parents to tell their kids their relevant medical history, and for kids to ask their parents before it's too late to do so.)
-- Tim.