I've had second thoughts on whether to post this or not, but as I have had so much help from this Forum maybe my comments will help someone else. Here goes....
Treatment
I was diagnosed about a year ago, PSA 37, Gleason 5+4, T3b, M0, N0. A big shock and life changing event. 3 options: do nothing and have about 18 months; or take the treatment; or treatment plus self help. Discussing this with my speciality nurse and took the last option. Also advised about Prostate Cancer UK and my local support group PCaSO. I spent the next month or so doing research, talking to people and reading the forum. All a massive help. Also had a lot of support from family and friends. It's good to know that you are not alone in this.
Treatment started with Zoladex hormone therapy. PSA came down and when less than 1 able to start radiotherapy. Side effects have been manageable, only hot flushes, tiredness and some muscle loss.
I have joined the STAMPEDE trial, this is really worthwhile as I have a second speciality nurse who monitors me every month from a blood test. Not fun but reassuring to know that the test results are all positive, not just for PSA and testosterone but liver and kidney functions as well.
Self Help
I have had a DXA scan and bones ok. I am fairly fit for 65 but am doing a lot more exercise to combat the tiredness and muscle loss. Take the dog for a 3km walk regularly, up a steep hill along the top and down again. Good for legs, back and heart I'm told. I was sceptical about joining a gym, but after an excellent training program (thanks Chris) for upper body strength plus swimming, I have noticed the difference. Good for arms, shoulders and chest. So alternate days of dog walking and going to the gym.
From this forum I discovered the late Prof Jane Plant. I have changed my diet to mainly Asian because of her (thank you Jane), cut out junk food, mainly processed food, all dairy (because of the added growth hormones), coffee, tea, plus minimised red meat and animal fat. Lots more vegetables, fruit, pulses, nuts, herbs, spices, green teas and varieties of Alpro. I've actually enjoyed the diet change and we have tried cooking lots of new recipes, some really good and some well not so (tofu yuk)!
I take a daily 75mg Aspirin, apparently it helps to stop the cancer spreading – good plan!
I was recommended to take daily CBD oil (not the hallucinogenic THC) cannabis derivative. Lots of information available online but not much medical research. After nearly a year I can't say if it has done me any good or not. Probably the same with all alternative therapies.
Thinking positive, I tried being miserable and didn't like it very much!
Music has been a big help too. Deezer subscription on my iPhone and downloaded lots of my favourite tracks. Great when sitting waiting for an appointment, or in the MRI scanner, or whenever feeling stressed even in the middle of the night. I also use my headphones in the Supermarket when feeling anto-social. Music is the soundtrack to your life.
Radiotherapy
East Sussex is not good for RT, the Lineacs at Brighton are over 10 years old. The replacement facilities at Preston Park and Eastbourne have both had their work delayed due to budget constraints, allegedly the funds were diverted to pay the agency wage bills.
I decided to go to Canterbury where they have new Varian TrueBeam machines. These (IMHO) are much more accurate, so hopefully less collateral damage to healthy tissues. I have had my CT scan and tattoos so ready to start 8 weeks RT from next Tuesday to my prostate, seminal vesicles (didn’t know I had these!) and nearby lymph nodes. I am apprehensive, mainly about getting bladder and bowel side effects, but who knows. Maybe I will do another update in June when it is all over.
Canterbury is a 140 mile round trip from Eastbourne so we will rent a room in Canterbury and stay during the week. Well worth it I think to be treated on an up to date machine. Wish me luck, I might need it!
What’s Next
I’m hopeful that my PC has been caught in time and that the RT will conquer it. So looking forward to the Summer. I’m also considering doing the South Downs Walk, 100 miles from Eastbourne to Winchester, with some family and friends to raise money for the Eastbourne PCaSO. That would be two big challenges, something to tell my Grandchildren about.