My husband was recently confirmed, PA 8, scores 4+3 and 3+4. Score 7 on scale. Much worse on ...think was left....but bone scan clear and mri shows no spread. The scariest thing of all is making best choice for treatment. We have so much information and I am a retired registered nurse which instead of making it easier to make a decision, is making it worse.
My husband wants the cancer gone obviously ( we have a son of 17) but he is concerned about possible urinary incontinence primarily....and then the other side effects.
It is awfully hard to make the right decision so I can understand how you are feeling. We too are new to this site but hope it helps. Good luck with your treatment journey