I don't think we can advise without knowing exactly what stage the tumour is at; "no external spread as far as they can see" could be a stage I, II, or III - and they're very different situations.
Mine was stage III (locally advanced; no sign of spread), I had the choices you do, and opted for radiotherapy and hormones (22 months into a 36 month course). I have had minor issues, but no irreversible effects (touch wood) - except, of course in sexual function.
If I'd had a Stage I, I would probably have opted for surgery, with a good chance of 'cure' and small risks of nasty side effects.
If I'd had stage II, it would have been a tougher decision (and the surgeon said "Many stage IIIs turn out to be stage II on the table" - silly man!), but I suspect I'd have gone for the RT/H on side effects grounds.
But as others have said, we're all different, our priorities are different. For many, a small gamble on sexual function is a no-brainer, for others, not so. Speak to many, take notes and cross examine your doctors, but do find out exactly what stage of disease it is.
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