Thank you all for your replies. I am almost certain about having surgery, but I am not looking forward to the side effects. I have been reassured that have plenty of time, but I am still not convinced that I shouldn't have the op sooner. I was diagnosed Friday, am waiting to see the surgeon and oncologist and then should make a decision, and then within 1-2 months should have the op/treatment.
That will take me into Jan-Feb next year - seems and awful long time after diagnosis. I have questioned them about it and they dont seem concerned, The arguments were:-
My MRI showed nothing, an aggressive cancer would normally have showed up on MRI so this is a good sign.
My gleason is relatively low 3+4, 9 out of 12 samples showed cancer, 8 were 3 and one was 4.
I had PSA tests in July and September, both were 7, which is fairly low and unchanging.
Still not sure I want to wait that long for the op, may explore options of going private.