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Posted 11 Nov 2016 at 13:47
Hi All, I had my prostate removed on 2/11 by keyhole....catheter is due for removal on 23/11 which is 3 weeks in situ.......I was wondering how many of us recover pretty quickly and how many have difficulties that linger?....I won't where I am until the Catheter is out but I am trying to prepare myself for the next stage in this process which is not the easiest thing to have to deal with.......Paul....
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Posted 11 Nov 2016 at 15:37

I was incredibly lucky enough to be dry almost immediately. In fact a nurse took me out in the sun with pyjamas on only 1 hour after catheter removal. I just had the odd drip here and there for a month.
When I saw the surgeons registrar and told her I was dry , she said he would be delighted !! He had been trying something new and I was the fifth in a row that was dry.
Fingers crossed for you

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Posted 20 Nov 2016 at 14:07

Not long until Weds when the catheter comes out.....been having some bypassing when I visit the toilet or sneeze etc.....also getting my bowels back to normal has not been easy, seem to be wanting to go far too often, I've stopped the lactulose yesterday to see if I can return to I was pre-op.......never a problem before.
Overall going pretty well so far, feel good, wounds healing well and soon to be liberated from the pipework......Paul...

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Posted 20 Nov 2016 at 17:16

Paul,

It sounds as if you have a positive attitude so if you remain relaxed and take each day as it comes all should be well. I had RRP in September 2014, was warned it could take up to 12 months to be dry and achieved it in 6, (with only occasional minor accidents subsequently when coughing/sneezing). Those who manage better recovery times are very fortunate, so don`t despair if it takes longer. I found that pelvic floor exercises, though a drag at first, became second nature. I hope they work for you too.

Dave

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Posted 11 Nov 2016 at 15:30

Hello Paul. I've only a general idea what the hard data says about incontinence levels after LRP compared with other techniques, but I know enough to say that extrapolating down to the level of the individual is impossible. It depends on so many things, including lots that are nothing to do with the disease: age, general fitness, previous history etc. Then you have the varied skill levels of the individual surgeon (despite the comments we read here and elsewhere, they can't all be 'top' or 'leading' even if we comfort ourselves by saying ours is)

Hope for the best but prepare for something less always seems good advice to me, and that seems to be in the spirit of what you've said. Some say much depends on pelvic floor exercises and my own surgeon said he believed even the worst apparent outcomes can be improved with effort, so there's always a next move.

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Posted 11 Nov 2016 at 15:37

I was incredibly lucky enough to be dry almost immediately. In fact a nurse took me out in the sun with pyjamas on only 1 hour after catheter removal. I just had the odd drip here and there for a month.
When I saw the surgeons registrar and told her I was dry , she said he would be delighted !! He had been trying something new and I was the fifth in a row that was dry.
Fingers crossed for you

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Posted 11 Nov 2016 at 17:10

Thanks for the response....I' ll have to deal with it when the time comes and hopefully normality won't be too far away.....Cheers, Paul.......

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Posted 11 Nov 2016 at 17:24

The official statistics are rather limited because the NHS definition of 'dry' is 'using one pad a day or less' but overall, the NHS data says 90% of men are dry by 12 months post-op

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

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Posted 11 Nov 2016 at 20:02

Hi Paul

I had my RALP on 10 October and the catheter removed on 24 October. I have been extremely fortunate in that I reckon I was 90% continent staight away. I am currently using one number 2 pad a day and mainly leak a little in the evenings when the muscles tend to get a little tired. One of the fantastic specialist nurses on this site advised me to restart pelvic floor exercises as soon as the catheter is removed. However only do what you are advised on your trial without catheter. Dont be in too much of a rush and over do them as you may exhaust the muscles that are going to be quite tired!
Good luck.

Brian.

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Posted 13 Nov 2016 at 14:15
Paul

I was almost dry 4 days post catheter removal after my RARP, but then had some post op complications a few months later. I know a guy who is still wet 17 years post surgery,but is prepared to accept the situation rather than have further surgery. Perhaps more importantly he is still free of cancer.

Thanks Chris

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Posted 20 Nov 2016 at 14:07

Not long until Weds when the catheter comes out.....been having some bypassing when I visit the toilet or sneeze etc.....also getting my bowels back to normal has not been easy, seem to be wanting to go far too often, I've stopped the lactulose yesterday to see if I can return to I was pre-op.......never a problem before.
Overall going pretty well so far, feel good, wounds healing well and soon to be liberated from the pipework......Paul...

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Posted 20 Nov 2016 at 17:16

Paul,

It sounds as if you have a positive attitude so if you remain relaxed and take each day as it comes all should be well. I had RRP in September 2014, was warned it could take up to 12 months to be dry and achieved it in 6, (with only occasional minor accidents subsequently when coughing/sneezing). Those who manage better recovery times are very fortunate, so don`t despair if it takes longer. I found that pelvic floor exercises, though a drag at first, became second nature. I hope they work for you too.

Dave

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Posted 21 Nov 2016 at 01:04

Hi Paul,

All the best for Wednesday, its totally unpredictable, is all I can say. So maybe my post won't help at all !

I was so so fortunate, 7 days with catheter. Dry after 24 hours.  Bowel took a lot longer to get back to normal, and looking back I don't think I could feel bowel movement until the catheter came out.  I also had bladder spasm week or so after.  It will be down to the skill of the surgeon re. nerve, and these will all be traumatised. The muscle, again hopefully not damaged.  I really feel for those that are not dry after a few months.  I did do kegels and still do them sometimes, I also was able to stop mid flow and re start before op  (this is NOT recommended to excess at all though), I was seeing how much control I did have of my bladder.    One thing I did do, post op which I never had before (and was not told to)  was to measure my total urine output; basically I urinated into a glass container.   I was also able to see the clarity and concentration, I was able to guesstimate if I was completing voiding or not.  I did this for about couple of weeks. I was also told to cut out (or at least cut down)  fizzy drinks, caffeine and definitely no Cranberry Juice. The lady who removed my catheter  gave me an ear bashing when I said I had been drinking Cranberry.  So I just stuck to the red wine.  http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/editors/tiny_mce/plugins/emoticons/img/smiley-smile.gif  and some cider.

I'm sure you have been told, the internal structures will take at least 6 weeks to heal as an absolute  minimum, and as my surgeon stated, the bladder will sit lower, so I assume he meant - get used to its new surroundings !.   You appear to have had your catheter in 21 days, so again the bladder naturally will need to re adjust.   I'm not sure if 7 day removal was a trial, or my surgeon does anything different, as most seem to be 10-14 days.   I did have non-nerve sparing.

By the way , I tended and tend to do fast pelvic floor muscle exercises, the slow 'hold ones' I couldn't hold more than 2 or 3 seconds, so rightly or wrongly I tend to do about 10 - 20 fast one's when I remember, maybe 2 or 3 times a day.      

Gordon

   

 

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Posted 22 Nov 2016 at 10:05
Thanks Dave & Gordon.........my biggest concern at the moment is having a bowel movement.....seems to be have been messed up a lot.....going far too often....but not diarrhoea, normal movement....I know straining is a No-No but it's impossible not to 'put a bit of effort in'....hopefully I haven't done any internal damage...no pain and no blood loss at all so far, right back from after the surgery......Paul....
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Posted 22 Nov 2016 at 13:13
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All the best for tomorrow,passing motions too often is preferable to being constipated. Are you eating something different,are you having the daily anti clotting injections something may be upsetting your normal routine ?

For my trials without catheter I went armed with a few pads and a towel to put on the car seat just in case. On one occasion it was a very close call but I never had a disaster.

My hospital requires two lots of urine, three if there is not much volume and then a bladder scan to check the bladder is empty enough. I was told to drink slow and steady and not drink too much to fast.

Your catheter has been in longer than most but still make sure it comes out nice and easy, my catheter got stuck and was pulled out swiftly, my consultant is convinced that was the start of my stricture problems.

Hope all goes well.

Thanks Chris

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Posted 22 Nov 2016 at 14:25

Thanks Chris....my diet is normal, plenty of fruit, veg, fish etc etc......I am on the self administered daily injections for blood clotting.....not sure if they have any side effects other than excessive bleeding if you cut yourself......
How do get the nurse to remove the catheter slowly........?......just ask?......I wouldn't like her to think that I was telling her her job!........When they changed the catheter from the post op version to the go home version it went all ok with no issues.....
Anyway not long to go and I'm sure that I will feel much better once it has been removed......Paul.....

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Posted 22 Nov 2016 at 14:49
Hi Paul...i managed to get myself very wound up about the catheter removal...in the end, it was swift and problem free...thank goodness 😊. The next challenge was the incontinent which can take you by surprise. I have to admit that I was shocked by my immediate inability to control myself but as I'm sure that other kind folks here will tell you, it is time, patience and lots of PFE's!! I really hope that you have a fantastic outcome when your catheter comes out😊

Keep grinning Paul...kind regards...Nick

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Posted 22 Nov 2016 at 15:49
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I just say to the nurse with a smile "nice and steady no yanking it out" .

It at least puts the thought in their head. Just relax about having the catheter out, it is nothing to worry about and I think Nick is saying the same. The relief of getting it out is wonderful.

Just curious about having the catheter changed. The catheter I had fitted during my op stopped in until it was removed 14days later.

Thanks Chris

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Posted 22 Nov 2016 at 16:05
Hi Chris...you're right! Before the nurse went near anything I made the point of asking her how it is done...this was for my own reassurance πŸ˜… and as you quite rightly say, it helps the nurse to focus...how you are well Chris...Nick
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Posted 23 Nov 2016 at 01:40
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I just say to the nurse with a smile "nice and steady no yanking it out" .

It at least puts the thought in their head. Just relax about having the catheter out, it is nothing to worry about and I think Nick is saying the same. The relief of getting it out is wonderful.

Just curious about having the catheter changed. The catheter I had fitted during my op stopped in until it was removed 14days later.

Thanks Chris

They didn't explain why it was changed to me so I just assumed that it was normal procedure.....the first catheter was opaque and creamy coloured.....the one I have now is transparent.....Paul....

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Posted 23 Nov 2016 at 15:02

Catheter is out but at the moment no bladder control.....also the urologist nurse detected a lymphocele...holding about a litre of fluid.

having a CT scan tomorrow to assess the situation, the staff don't seem over concerned at this stage and say that quite often the fluid is

reabsorbed by the body...will post a separate thread on this aspect I think....Paul...

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Posted 23 Nov 2016 at 16:15

Hi Paul

re. lymphocele  (I've replied in the wrong post !) 

I can't really help or advise as never heard of this.   The forum is good, as what you assume as 'normal/std' isn't the case.  ie unless you had posted I would have no idea you had had 2 catheters

ie I had just the one - a foley catheter, in when I came to and remained in for 7 days.  The lady just deflated the ballon and out in a few seconds, no discomfort at all. No ultrasound scan either, I just did a discharge flow test and walked  out about 1 hr later, with my pack of adult pads.   

re. lymph.  I need to check my surgical notes, exactly what the surgeon did,  as I was very extended post op for first 5 days home and the 2nd night our bed was soaked and woke us up. Basically I was freezing  ! (about 300ml at a guess on/in sheets) the incision on the  right was pumping out fluid (clear). This was NOT the drain incision on the lower left.  I had no fever, no pain.    I rang up MDT contact in morning and they said this does happen occasionally and nothing to worry about. Another incision weeped for a couple of hours the next day, then it all settled down.   At my 6 week review with surgeon he said lymph system can 'back up' (his words)  and take a few days to clear.  My worry obviously was peritonitis if material was going the other way into the body, so whilst fluid came out I was 'ok' .  Incidentally  all my incisions healed fine,  they were all superglued apart from the central one.  Again I have no idea if my extended quite solid abdomen was normal size or not.  I saw no medical professional from release (I was in just 1 night)  until 6 weeks post op, other than 1 person in A&E when I had bladder spasms. 

All the best for tomorrow, as long as you have no fever etc then thankfully you have no infections and all sorted.   

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Posted 23 Nov 2016 at 18:04
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Hope all goes well with the scan.

Thanks Chris

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Posted 23 Nov 2016 at 22:48
Hi Paul...glad to hear that the process of removing your catheter was relatively stress free😊. I can completely empathise with the feelings around the initial incontinence...this took me by surprise. It will take time to adjust to this and I have to admit that I felt quite panicked and somewhat down for a few weeks. The folks here have been great and supportive so if you do feel low or need advice please ask...it took me a change in mind-set to accept that I was going to have an uphill struggle...but I'm getting there. I do sincerely hope that your side-effects soon get rectified and that you experience positive progress as soon as possible. It's a case of keep grinning Paul...you'll get there πŸ˜‰

Take care...Nick

 
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