father is 62 has aggresive prostate cance

39 is indeed young for prostate cancer , I was diagnosed with aggressive prostate cancer age 49 that was 2 years ago, I have since met men aged 43 with aggressive cance too however it is not very common in ones 40s.

The PSA test is indeed only a sign post and please remember this forum does not have medics on it just people who have or have seen the cancer so take all advice in and make your own decision.

Statistically, roughly 1 in 8 white men get prostate cancer , 1 in 4 black. If your father has it that risk more than doubles (my father had prostate cancer too) so personally I would discuss with GP too but I think I would be going for a test regularly in my 40s because if you catch it early it is curable,(my fathers was) or too late and it is not (like mine and sadly your Dads) . By the time I had symptoms it was already too late, if I had been told about the risks I would have been having tests earlier and who knows.

The downside about a PSA test is not the test itself but afterwards if you have a raised level there are mental challenges and a biopsy at some stage that has risks attached but ignoring it may just be building a time bomb .

I am sorry that this is not the happiest post you will read but the facts that bother me for my kids are early diagnosis should cure a man.

Speak to your GP

Sending you and your father every good wish

Kev

I think that the above comments are all true but you could possibly misunderstand the advice you are being given You say everyone is telling you to get tested and you may be interpreting that they are worried you also have prostate cancer. In fact, the most important thing about getting tested at your age, and then continuing to get tested on an annual or 2 yearly basis, is to give a baseline of what is normal for you so that if in the future you do start to have problems it will be picked up early. Getting a regular PSA test also keeps your prostate health in your mind.

There are other things you can do as well. Reliable research suggests that eating lots of tomatoes, garlic, oily fish, broccoli etc and reducing your intake of processed food, red meat and dairy can help keep your prostate healthy and reduce your future risk.

A direct genetic link for PCa is quite rare - less than 10% of prostate cancers are believed to be genetic - but having a father, brother, uncle or grandfather who was diagnosed young - and/or a close female relative with breast cancer - increases the risk. Your dad wouldn't technically be classed as 'young at diagnosis' but as Ray says, he could have had it for a while. My husband was diagnosed at age 50 so our son tries to eat more healthily and will have PSA tests from the age of 30.