Paul
I'm 46, so a bit younger than you. I had my post-op meeting last week, four weeks after surgery.
It's obviously too soon to have a PSA test. Pathology reports have upgraded me to a Gleason 9 and T3b.
Without a post-op PSA result, my urologist said I need radiotherapy. He was also going to start me on hormone therapy that day by prescribing my first tablet. He then decided to wait a week as he was able to get me a speedy appointment with the oncologist this week.
Like you, I'm disappointed. I had hoped surgery would have been the end of it. The speed with which he wants to move is unsettling to say the least. The fact that he was going to start hormone therapy without waiting for a PSA test is a bad omen, I think. He even talked about adding chemo in at the end of the radiotherapy.
It all gets very confusing. Thank God for people on the forum who have been there and bring us hope and clarity.
Walter