What a difference a day makes. Dad text me to say he was feeling better but I wasn't expecting to see just how much better. His pain was bearable, no wooziness and although the nausea hadn't disappeared, it was only brought on by walking. And this was only when he walked further than he should.
He was so much better he came home this evening. By no means has the pain gone (it's mainly in his bottom still) but he is smiling, joking, talking and taking things more in his stride. He has a wealth of painkillers with him although he's now managing on paracetamol for the time being. His consultant said a day like yesterday (teary and very down along with pain and nausea) is not necessarily the surgery but the lingering effects of the drugs, anaesthetic and simply being overwhelmed by it all.
Dad is a bit of a worrier. In the mornings his urine crimson but the nurses have reassured him that this is ok so soon after the operation. In the day it ranges from clear to darker urine, depending on how much water he has had to drink. We will just keep an eye on it at home now.
Dad is 58. He walks 6 miles a day, Has an active job and hikes. He went into hospital 72 hours ago with no symptoms and has returned home feeling rubbish and realising that recovery might take some time. Short term pain for long term gain the consultant said. Just hoping that progress continues however slowly that may be.