John was reluctant (very reluctant) to go for additional treatment until and unless they could prove he needed it (this was a mark of his whole coping strategy which was to deny anything was really going on in his life). In the end, we waited until it got up above 0.15 but in that time he had fully recovered from the op and felt 'match fit' for whatever was coming next.
Statistically, going for adjuvant or salvage RT/HT within 6 months of the op has better outcomes than waiting and having it later but it doesn't seem to have done J any harm. I think your onco is very wise to wait.