oh dear!!! To all people on this site.
My heart goes out to each and everyone of you and anyone else who has had to go through the awful journey cancer takes us on.
Maybe I am passionate about spreading my uncles and my whole family's story (as cancer pulls us all in, does it not?), and maybe my approach was wrong. But it was and always will be from a good place.
We went from hopeless to hopeful to a miracle and I will never play down our experience as a family.
If someone had not been brave enough to suggest something to my Uncle which may not have been what's considered the 'Norm', my Uncle would not be here today and that is a fact.
Your messages will always get thru and I feel it's important for people to be able to discuss especially such a painful topic that is responsible for taking beautiful people from us way before their time.
I am NOT selling ANYTHING, neither am I a spammer.
I am a normal person trying to be a good husband, father, friend, definitely Nephew etc and I care immensely about this subject and what information is out there for people like me to be able to research and share with people like you.
Whether we agree or not, surely is not important. Is not sharing our experiences the way forward? Does it matter that we have different experiences? If you had a good experience, would you not want to share it with other people that may also be suffering?
Considering that cancer is rifer now than ever (1 in 2 male or female currently as we all know) is it not our duty to be doing our own research to try and help other people including the amazing people in the medical community, or do we like sheep keep our heads in the sand and our fingers crossed that it does not happen to us?
It did happen to us and we did have our heads in the sand and had never bothered to educate ourselves on what is quickly becoming the biggest killer.
We now as a family have self-funded our own research into cancer prevention and cure, we realized that we have access to all the same information that the professionals do. It's in the public domain. There are literally thousands of people across the world that are doing the same and we have been privileged to connect with many like-minded people.
I will again apologise for my approach, my wife always says I am like a bull in a china shop.
But I stand by everything I say as I can back it up and have done for the last few years on a regular basis.
Whether you believe me or not I genuinely care about people in general and all of you that may have or currently are gone/going through awful times with this horrendous disease. My heart and positive energy go out to all of you.
I would say this, if I did not have thick skin I would have been driven away from this platform by now.
Having different opinions is what makes people, people.
I assure you I am as loving, as caring as empathetic as you are.
I want the same outcome as everyone here which is to help fight cancer.
Love to you all x