Hi Mark, and Welcome!
I was in a very similar boat (T3aN0M0) about three years ago, though I was already 62.
I remember watching the world gently spinning around me, but it eventually settled after numerous scans, then came the time to choose the treatment.
Assuming your expectations are confirmed, look at the upsides and downsides of each option; ask about quality of life, not just number of years. If you can take Peter with you, do so: best you both know what's going on, and he will likely remember the details better than you, anyway. If in doubt, take notes.
There's two schools of thought on doing your own research: I suggest reading widely. This site has excellent information, as do some other quality sites. If you're Internet-savvy, you'll know that there's a lot of dross out there too. Best ignored.
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