We are now two and a half years post op, and four months post salvage RT. PSA returned to undetectable, incontinence still an issue, but not as much of an issue, and my sex life is non existent.
We are fortunate enough to be able to have 5mg daily cialis from a month after surgery. Oh hated the pump, and wouldn't go near it. We tried viridal, which did work- a little too well! After two close shaves out of ten attempts, we decided it wasn't for us and h went back on cialis.
He has lost the will to try these days. Some of this is down to being dog tired with his physical job and the recent RT, but I'm sure a lot of it is psychological. I also think when he does orgasm, it's quite painful for him.
He wants to continue taking cialis daily- I did ask him if he wanted to stop taking it, and it was a definite no.
What can he take on top of the cialis to try and make a difference? Can he take more cialis? Or does it need to be something else?