Good evening Jim,
There are 2 ways to deal with changes to our circumstances.
1. we stop what we do, or
2. we change what we do?
Up to you what you choose?
The pump can inhibit, dominate and ultimately curtail your love making, if you allow it to?
Or, it can enhance it? If you choose? The pump can become part of a new or different technique, and can be used by both parties ope each other.
And "alleged side effects", are actually only "potential side effects".